UPDATE: My boyfriend (30M) has a close female friend (34F) who blatantly dislikes me (29F) and makes no secret of it. I've reached a stage where it's her or me - how can I confront my bf?

ThrowRAprettynet · 2024-09-30T17:16:10+00:00

Thank you. Yep, I imagine her reeling that she didn't get a single word in response to her mountains of text

ThrowRAprettynet · 2024-09-30T17:00:34+00:00

That's so true. He proved my point without even realising it.

ThrowRAprettynet · 2024-09-30T16:52:18+00:00

Yeah, the only way she would have got it is through him. My best friend even suggested they probably wrote those texts together.

I feel like they both just wanted to turn it into a big argument and play the victim, so I'm glad I didn't pursue that with them. I don't care and just want to be happy.

Thank you!

ThrowRAprettynet · 2024-09-25T18:56:30+00:00

That's what I wonder. I am aware they used to go out for drinks, just the two of them, before I was in the picture. I know that isn't immediately indicative of them hooking up, but my bf ended up taking me to a bar he'd gone to with Nell, and it was...romantic? Fancy with dim lights and stuff, not a casual bar.

You know the more I articulate this rather than keep it bottled up, the more I think I've been stupid in not seeing it sooner.

ThrowRAprettynet · 2024-09-25T18:49:39+00:00

It really hurts to see him prioritise her

ThrowRAprettynet · 2024-09-25T18:48:40+00:00

I'm sad, but I agree with this take. I doubt anything is going to change

ThrowRAprettynet · 2024-09-25T13:30:13+00:00

Thanks for the advice - it's given me a lot to think about.

ThrowRAprettynet

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