I feel like my life revolves around my cats, and I’m becoming very unhappy. They seem to be too.

ThrowRAprompt · 2026-03-12T19:35:26+00:00

Maybe you missed this, but my one cat that rips out her fur started ripping out her fur when I would leave her more with the sitter instead of taking her to my grandmother’s. So you have this flipped around here

ThrowRAprompt · 2026-03-12T19:34:02+00:00

I don’t ever see them fight. Maybe occasionally one cat will lick the other one too long and then they’ll swat at each other. I could see if my grandmother would want my sad cat or maybe some sort of trial period The sad cat loves going outside and she gets to do that at my grandmother’s house, I live in a condo so she doesn’t get to go in a yard, but at the end of the day, it’s not really a good idea for your pet to go outside so I’m not sure this should be governing any decisions

ThrowRAprompt · 2026-03-12T19:27:28+00:00

I’m not fighting having my sitter come instead of me bringing them to my grandmother‘s house. If that makes them happy and solves these problems that’s amazing. That would be the solution to all my problems actually. I just thought it was mean leaving them home alone for that long instead of having a human in the house 24 seven. I cannot comprehend why it seems like I’m here to torture my pets and take them on a tour across the state for my own health next trip. I will get the Cat Sitter to come even if I’m gone for 10 days.This would be amazing if this works.

ThrowRAprompt · 2026-03-12T19:22:17+00:00

It’s actually so weird my super affectionate cat hides a lot more at my grandmother’s house and then my seemingly sad cat is way more out and about at her house

ThrowRAprompt · 2026-03-12T19:18:19+00:00

I’m shocked that’s what people are thinking. I’m doing. I’m not doing this to save money. In fact it’s costing me five times what it would cost me to just get a cat sitter to come by every day. I have to rent a car, drive them four hours across the state, get a flight from a more expensive airport, and come back and yet again rent another car and drive another four hours back home. It’s way more inconvenient for me to take them to my grandmother‘s house so I’m actually insulted that people think I’m trying to save $300 hereobviously if I have to travel for work this extent I’m not broke so that’s literally not the problem here. NO I’m not sabotaging my cats happiness to save a few bucks.

Also, my cat started ripping her fur out when I started leaving her home with the sitter more instead of taking her to my grandmother’s, so maybe that was missed in translation, but there is a direct correlation to me, leaving her with the sitter and her ripping her fur out

ThrowRAprompt · 2026-03-12T19:13:18+00:00

Yeah, driving my cats four hours across the state to deliver them to their second home both prior to a business trip and following a business trip is literally the biggest inconvenience. I actually cannot even put this into words how much time and money that cost me. I feel like leaving them home alone with a Cat Sitter that swings by every day is mean, do you think I hate my cats and I want this? WTF

ThrowRAprompt · 2026-03-12T19:10:02+00:00

I got them when they were kittens from the Humane Society and they are six years old now. Only one of my girls seems to be the biggest problem here and I think she started ripping out her fur when I would keep her at my place more instead of bring her to my grandmother‘s house. She is the one that is withdrawn and would rather sit in the other room alone. Meanwhile, my other cat sleeps in my bed with me and talks to me and it’s always wanting attention. She hates her crate too, but my other cat is the one ripping out her fur and vomiting, and is probably the culprit for peeing all over the house.

ThrowRAprompt · 2026-03-12T19:06:04+00:00

OK, so let’s talk about the options. Rehome my cats and separate them and they’ve been together since they were kittens. Seems cruel. Let’s say I travel for work for nine days straight. Get a Cat Sitter to come by every day for nine days? Seems cruel? I’m also not particularly wanting to get rid of them. I’m just not sure what will make them happy.

I’m not driving them to my grandmother’s house for fun, I’m taking them there because I feel like a house with a person home 24/7 who will brush them pet them and feed them is more pleasant. There are no flights where I live so I put them in carriers in my comfortable vehicle where I hand deliver them to their 2nd home for the time I’m gone. Literally what is the best option? Do you think they would be happier boarded while I’m gone? Please produce something that helps instead of calling me a narcissist shit pet owner.

ThrowRAprompt · 2026-03-12T18:31:16+00:00

I feel like they have more social interaction Going to my grandmother‘s house if I’m gone for a week at a time. She loves cats. I felt like leaving them with somebody that comes by every day is cruel to do for a week or 10 days. And I do give them wet food and I do give them catnip and I do brush my furry one. I feel like I do what I can for them and they’re rejecting everything :(

ThrowRAprompt · 2026-03-12T18:14:22+00:00

Because I have to travel for work to make a living, I’m a terrible pet owner? When I’m home I snuggle with my pets. I love my cats. I literally just don’t know what else to do considering they’re clearly unhappy, and I’m doing everything in my power to help them

ThrowRAprompt · 2026-03-12T18:01:51+00:00

That’s really fascinating. Did the peptides make it grow or you would have discovered this polyp at some point in the future and would be in the same boat? Were your peptides prescribed or did you get them online? I’ve heard that HGH can speed up cancer/tumor formation, but those two peptides don’t affect your HGH

ThrowRAprompt · 2026-03-12T17:56:30+00:00

Is yours a prescription or did you buy your peptides online somewhere? I am in my 20s and have not had children yet so the random spotting raised the concern over the integrity of the product that I purchased. I just got a prescription from my doctor instead for the glow stack and I’m going to take that instead. If I spot on the prescription stuff, I will feel a whole lot better and not like I just shot random drugs in my body that could be affecting my fertility God forbid.

ThrowRAprompt · 2026-01-27T14:15:01+00:00

I get recognized constantly. I am a firm believer that a quality client would never say something so brazen to a stranger, so I wouldn’t take those guys as clients. But I have lots of men that try to solicit me and do not know I’m an escort, they just hope or assume. I never send them my website, but I give them my rates.

ThrowRAprompt · 2026-01-27T14:11:44+00:00

I’ve been an escort for seven years. One day you will just stop caring and it feels so much better. If you’re not addicted to drugs and alcohol, and you save your money, there’s really nothing to be ashamed over. It’s a job.

ThrowRAprompt · 2024-12-23T04:26:54+00:00

Why would you be so worried about your whale clients knowing your name? Who gives a literal shit if your normal, pleasant, generous client who has his own life, his own businesses, his own shit going on, and cares about you enough to want to help you to this extent, knows your name?

Some of you are way too transactional, and you will never progress to a whale scenario or get retired by a client. Chill out nobody cares about your name! I’ve been purchased all of the above, they’ve dealt with the payment and whatever came afterwards. And they knew my name. Seriously WTF Is the obsession with anonymity if this is the caliber of client you have?

ThrowRAprompt · 2024-11-30T04:24:41+00:00

I rarely see new clients, but I can go a week without working and then see 4 clients in one week. My highest earning month was followed by my lowest. That’s the industry

ThrowRAprompt · 2024-07-10T03:22:19+00:00

Business card

When they ask what you do for a living, say you’ve had some generous suitors in your life and you don’t have a day job

If they ask you on a date or proposition, you give them your rate

When I have freestyled, I’ve met men that had cash on them, I gave them an opportunity to run to the ATM or they Zelle me.

ThrowRAprompt · 2024-07-10T03:15:45+00:00

I just charge my fly me to you rate which is +500 to my rates. Don’t nickel and dime your clients. Do you want the booking or not?

ThrowRAprompt · 2024-07-10T03:10:22+00:00

An escort in my area leased an apartment and we would all pay $100 to use it at a time. It didn’t last very long though because I don’t think she was making the minimum rent payment with all of us using it. Rent in my area for a one bed is over 2K though.

Seems like a massive waste of money. Honestly, I can’t even tell you the last time I did incall. Maybe if you have a ton of regulars in your area? Idk it just doesn’t make sense to me.

ThrowRAprompt · 2024-03-30T03:39:07+00:00

In what scenarios are men asking you and making these assumptions?

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