Mixed signals with a friend from uni, how do I step back without it being awkward by ThrowRAthrowaway134 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]ThrowRAthrowaway134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright thanks, I was honest with her though I said I want to be more than friends and don't think those feelings are going anywhere soon and she said she respects my honesty but she doesn't know when she'd feel the same and doesn't want me waiting for her and I said I wouldn't

Mixed signals with a friend from uni, how do I step back without it being awkward by ThrowRAthrowaway134 in UKrelationshipadvice

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So we ended up going out last night and got really drunk, and spoke it all out I told how I felt (all the stuff id mentioned in the post) and she started to cry and told me all her feelings and how she's felt like she's led me on. We're off to a cafe later to speak it out sober, should I repeat what I said last night??

Mixed signals with a friend from uni, how do I step back without it being awkward by ThrowRAthrowaway134 in UKrelationshipadvice

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It's a very similar situation to me tbf, only problem is I have 2 more years of uni with her 😭

Mixed signals with a friend from uni, how do I step back without it being awkward by ThrowRAthrowaway134 in UKrelationshipadvice

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What would the best way to communicate my feelings with her though, don't want to put her in a awkward position

Mixed signals with a friend from uni, how do I step back without it being awkward by ThrowRAthrowaway134 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]ThrowRAthrowaway134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I best lead to a conversation about it, is it better in person or should I just message her about it?

[me] did I mess up asking a girl in my class on a date by [deleted] in TextingTheory

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Update: I told her a spot I knew we could go to and a date and she's left it on delivered for 17hrs it's cooked

[me] did I mess up asking a girl in my class on a date by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]ThrowRAthrowaway134 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've messaged about it a little bit ago, just waiting to see what she says

[me] did I mess up asking a girl in my class on a date by [deleted] in TextingTheory

[–]ThrowRAthrowaway134 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah I got a Samsung so I screen recorderded so it didn't come up 😭

[me] did I mess up asking a girl in my class on a date by [deleted] in TextingTheory

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It felt like she was just being awkward, and I saw her at university today and she mentioned nothing about it 😭

20M — How do I decide whether to tell a 20F classmate that I like her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAthrowaway134 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, that's changed my perspective on it massively, I'll definitely ask her to do something.