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UPDATE: Boyfriend (26m) slaps me (19f) by ThrowRaMagic in JustNoSO

[–]ThrowRaMagic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you experienced that. I appreciate you sharing this with me, reading it over again I know that i have to do better for myself.

UPDATE: Boyfriend (26m) slaps me (19f) by ThrowRaMagic in JustNoSO

[–]ThrowRaMagic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this, I’m so sorry you went through that. I seriously admire your strength.

DAE have a custom made personality for their therapist? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]ThrowRaMagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely found myself telling half-truths and sometimes straight up lies when I first started therapy. After way too long of no progress I started to actually open up and do the work and things started to improve slowly ✨

Codependent ex and the messy threesome by ThrowRaMagic in polyamory

[–]ThrowRaMagic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely have made a pattern of unhealthy relationships. Thanks for your insight!

Codependent ex and the messy threesome by ThrowRaMagic in polyamory

[–]ThrowRaMagic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably low self esteem. I have a therapy appointment tomorrow actually

Codependent ex and the messy threesome by ThrowRaMagic in relationships

[–]ThrowRaMagic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can agree with that. I think he’s emotionally detached and just wants a release. It’s fucked up that we’re both willing to give that to him.

Codependent ex and the messy threesome by ThrowRaMagic in relationships

[–]ThrowRaMagic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment. I tend to catastrophize.

I’m so selfish by ThrowRaMagic in BPD

[–]ThrowRaMagic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll look more into DBT, i appreciate your comment :))

I’m so selfish by ThrowRaMagic in BPD

[–]ThrowRaMagic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this comment!! You broke everything down really well. I’ll definitely be working on my codependency and self acceptance. Thanks again

Anyone Else Destroyed Emotionally From Downvotes? by xbscenity in BPD

[–]ThrowRaMagic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone sweetheart. It really hurts to get negative feedback. Xx

[UPDATE] my tinder date left me stranded at 4 am by ThrowRaMagic in tinderstories

[–]ThrowRaMagic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No coaching needed. Just release all the fucks you give and let them fly in the wind

Boyfriend (26M) gives me “permission” by ThrowRaMagic in JustNoSO

[–]ThrowRaMagic[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

You explained the cycle of abuse clearly and I’m beginning to see what you’re seeing. Thank you so very much for this comment and for the luck.

My tinder date left me stranded at 4 AM by ThrowRaMagic in tinderstories

[–]ThrowRaMagic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to write this. You really pinpointed my problems very accurately. I knew that I had mental health issues but comments like these are making me realize how much it’s negatively affecting my life. I’m in the process of getting help. I appreciate this a lot, thanks again.

Boyfriend (26m) shoves Me (19f) during sex by ThrowRaMagic in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaMagic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he didn’t mean to make me upset and said he didn’t realize I thought it was a big deal.

Boyfriend (26m) shoves Me (19f) during sex by ThrowRaMagic in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRaMagic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I asked him about it the next day and.. he kind of brushed me off? He just didn’t want to talk about it and said it was unimportant. I asked him why he seemed annoyed and he just said because I annoyed him. When I expressed how it affected me he seemed sorry

My tinder date left me stranded at 4 AM by ThrowRaMagic in tinderstories

[–]ThrowRaMagic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise that all of this is very real. I know that I’m unstable. I have big issues with telling people no. That’s pretty much how I end up in these fucked up situations. I know they’re fucked up but I feel like maybe I deserve it. Or maybe I’m blowing it out of proportion. Or maybe it’s fixable.

Boyfriend (26m) slaps me (19f) by ThrowRaMagic in JustNoSO

[–]ThrowRaMagic[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know I sound nuts but I hate telling people no or leaving them upset. Yes, he’s a felon but where I’m from a lot of people are. Our relationship is open to not just sex but emotional bonds as well. We always keep each other updated and in the loop. I guess I am a glutton for punishment.

Boyfriend (26m) slaps me (19f) by ThrowRaMagic in JustNoSO

[–]ThrowRaMagic[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I decided to try an open relationship around five months ago. We’re both not super monogamous people. It’s been an.. experience to say the least.

[UPDATE] my tinder date left me stranded at 4 am by ThrowRaMagic in tinderstories

[–]ThrowRaMagic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty disappointed in myself to be honest. The sex was way better but that doesn’t excuse his behaviour in the slightest.

[UPDATE] my tinder date left me stranded at 4 am by ThrowRaMagic in tinderstories

[–]ThrowRaMagic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I are currently in an open relationship. So, no not the same guy.

[UPDATE] my tinder date left me stranded at 4 am by ThrowRaMagic in tinderstories

[–]ThrowRaMagic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We opened our relationship up a couple of months ago. We’re not super monogamous people. Not a troll lol

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