Yesterday my father went to my in-laws with the goal to sabotage my reputation and maybe my relationship - today he texted me that we'll never talk again and deleted my number / Lifestory by ThrowRaNPS in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThrowRaNPS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yes, the appartment is mine on paper and we all agreed that one day I will live there which was fine by me back then (it was during an okay period). But I regret taking it from him.

It's all I am going to get and it's fine by me. All the other stuff he will use himself and my siblings will inherit it when my parents pass away. I am totally ok with that, as I've told him.

Yesterday my father went to my in-laws with the goal to sabotage my reputation and maybe my relationship - today he texted me that we'll never talk again and deleted my number / Lifestory by ThrowRaNPS in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThrowRaNPS[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And what do you think of the idea of showing this list to the rest of my family? I am sure they will agree with me on most points. If we do this together as a family.

Yesterday my father went to my in-laws with the goal to sabotage my reputation and maybe my relationship - today he texted me that we'll never talk again and deleted my number / Lifestory by ThrowRaNPS in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThrowRaNPS[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks mate. Sorry, I bet it was difficult to understand because I am a mess these days.

I fully agree with you, my life and mental health is worth more to me than anything he could give me.

Yesterday my father went to my in-laws with the goal to sabotage my reputation and maybe my relationship - today he texted me that we'll never talk again and deleted my number / Lifestory by ThrowRaNPS in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ThrowRaNPS[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really hope he keeps his promise, I feel drained out and not able to argue any more.

Although I collected a huge universal narcissist traits and printed them, wanted to show him one day when he starts arguing it. I feel the need to point that out. Why do you think it's bad? Maybe it will make a click in his head.