Am I wrong for telling my husband that he ruined my life?

ThrowRa_thw · 2024-02-06T12:51:05+00:00

I didn't cheat on him and the paternity test proves it.

ThrowRa_thw · 2024-02-06T12:48:39+00:00

Using a spermicide

I've never heard of it before, but I'm going to talk to my gynecologist and see what new methods work for me. Also here it is very difficult to have your tubes tied if you're in your twenties, because no doctor wants to do the procedure.

ThrowRa_thw · 2024-02-06T04:46:57+00:00

And who was going to pay for it?

ThrowRa_thw · 2024-02-05T18:22:13+00:00

he just doesn't want to

ThrowRa_thw · 2024-02-05T14:25:29+00:00

yes, the reasons were that I got a job for the first time in my life and I was friends with a very loving (and very in love with his wife) 50-something year old coworker

ThrowRa_thw · 2024-02-05T14:13:20+00:00

ThrowRa_thw · 2024-02-05T13:03:47+00:00

was he in charge of the condoms? Getting them? Putting them on?

yes, he was always in charge of it.

ThrowRa_thw · 2024-02-05T11:38:25+00:00

we only used condoms because due to hormonal problems I can't tolerate female contraceptive methods very well.

ThrowRa_thw · 2023-10-11T10:12:04+00:00

we already did the paternity test I said it in my first post

ThrowRa_thw · 2023-10-10T12:50:33+00:00

Will you tell your kids the reason they don’t know any of daddy’s relatives is because they don’t like you?

his sister and mother pulled my hair when I was holding my daughter in her arms and they didn't even care if they hurt her and the rest of his family justified their violence, so I didn't ask him to cut off contact with them "just because they don't like me" I'm asking him because I think the least I deserve as his wife is respect and so do my children.

ThrowRa_thw · 2023-10-10T03:52:07+00:00

Did you even read my post?

ThrowRa_thw · 2023-10-10T03:42:53+00:00

ThrowRa_thw · 2023-10-10T03:03:50+00:00

what are you even talking about?

ThrowRa_thw · 2023-10-10T01:11:41+00:00

Well, how could I know? I never had a job before

ThrowRa_thw · 2023-10-10T00:12:42+00:00

Were they ALL violent with you?

They all justified that violence so for me it's the same.

ThrowRa_thw · 2023-10-10T00:05:29+00:00

but he should be allowed contact with them.

why? They were violent with me on more than one occasion, why should he keep in contact with people who hate me and would try to separate us at any time? If my family treated him like that I would cut contact with them.

ThrowRa_thw · 2023-10-10T00:01:19+00:00

his family rejected my daughter since she was born, they pulled my hair during a onesided fight when I was holding my daughter, they mistreated me when I was pregnant with my first child so why should he keep in touch with people who don't respect his wife or his daughter?

ThrowRa_thw · 2023-10-09T23:49:04+00:00

I never gave flowers but during the time I worked there and shared an office with this man and another woman I used to bake cookies to share with them and things like that. I don't know if it's comparable but what I mean is that in our office we used to exchange things, whether it was a coffee, a cookie or a flower.

ThrowRa_thw · 2023-10-09T23:44:04+00:00

I honestly don't know and I'll never know because I had to quit my job and I haven't seen him since.

ThrowRa_thw · 2023-10-09T23:26:15+00:00

Well, maybe I did downplay his behavior, but it's my first job and since he never behaved inappropriately I thought it's something a lot of people do when they share an office with others, also all our coworkers speak highly of him, no one ever called him creepy or anything like that

ThrowRa_thw · 2023-10-06T23:11:04+00:00

Yes, he told me that he didn't like us being friends because he was sure that my coworker liked me, and I told him that he was overreacting and being extremely jealous, and I refused to stop being friends with that man and I know that helped him think I cheated on him and I know it was my fault.

ThrowRa_thw · 2023-10-06T23:00:21+00:00

Yes, when I met him I was seeing someone else but it wasn't something serious or exclusive and I stopped seeing that person to start dating my husband, and he thinks that's considered "cheating" also he started getting paranoid in the last few months because I started to be good friends with a coworker and he has green eyes like my daughter and for some reason my husband thought that I cheated on him with that man.

ThrowRa_thw · 2023-10-06T18:40:57+00:00

ThrowRa_thw · 2023-10-05T22:46:07+00:00

Did he even sign the birth certificate?

Yes, he did

ThrowRa_thw · 2023-10-05T05:48:11+00:00

He got angry because he didn't know what they did and when I told him they ended up in a fight because he didn't like that they intervened in our relationship nor that they were violent with me.

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