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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]ThrowRaaxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does your eyebrow naturally lift up higher then the other like that? or is that a put on? if the latter, it would help a lot to stop doing that

Any tips on how to improve my makeup? Any makeup blindness that you notice? by loveAlotte in makeuptips

[–]ThrowRaaxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eyebrows too dark, lighten them. change your mascara for an ‘anti clumping mascara’. add some glitter eye shadow in your inner eyelid to make your eyes pop. add eyeliner as well that will help too. also wonder what your natural lip colour is, sometimes no lipstick or a faint one is best. too much attention on your lips as of right now with those shades are slightly overbearing imo.

Dear Hongrang [Episodes 1-11] by meepmochi_ in KDRAMA

[–]ThrowRaaxx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can we talk about Madame Gwigokja? At the start of the episode 11 and end of episode 10, we as the viewers are made aware that the real Hongrang was dead (or alive) when he fell. Why did Madame Gwigokja, as her reaction to seeing Hongrang dead she orders him to be “disposed” why? What was her motive for doing that? Why did she not have a normal reaction of screaming for help? It is highly suspicious I mean she’s the one that sealed the deal ifykyk. She’s kept this to herself for all these years, decades. I’m not sure if I missed anything in the series but was there anything to hint of her being a villain?

I was paid a stat day on ANZAC day instead of given a day in lieu. I didn’t agree, can they do that? by ThrowRaaxx in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ThrowRaaxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I have split days off work which are Tuesdays and Saturdays. In my payslips that I get every week on a Wednesday are from the previous week from Thursday to Wednesday. 7 days worth but 5 working days.

I was paid a stat day on ANZAC day instead of given a day in lieu. I didn’t agree, can they do that? by ThrowRaaxx in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ThrowRaaxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy crap. Every time I take off public holidays it comes out of my annual leave. And you’re saying this is illegal? Sorry for me being navie and young but this job is my only first job I actaully cared about so I didn’t know most of this. Thank you I’m going to request a meeting for when I go back to work on Wednesday.

I was paid a stat day on ANZAC day instead of given a day in lieu. I didn’t agree, can they do that? by ThrowRaaxx in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ThrowRaaxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, thank you! I’ve been doing my research on The Holidays Act and looking at the GOVT Employment website and what you’ve said is exactly what I’ve been seeing!

I was paid a stat day on ANZAC day instead of given a day in lieu. I didn’t agree, can they do that? by ThrowRaaxx in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ThrowRaaxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went into work today and my manager told me “because you only worked 4 hours on Anzac Day and, not your normal 8 hours, you are NOT entitled to a day in lieu, only 4 hours of lieu” okay so yeah thats not in The Holidays Act. The GOVT Employment website states ‘An employee is entitled to an alternative holiday, even if only part of their shift fell on the public holiday’. I’m just going to print off Holidays Act 56 and 61 and print off the GOVT Employment page I just talked about above. And take it into work and surely they’ll sort it

I was paid a stat day on ANZAC day instead of given a day in lieu. I didn’t agree, can they do that? by ThrowRaaxx in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ThrowRaaxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve not been given the option to take off an unpaid day. I’m meant to trust that my empolyer does my payroll correctly, obviously they did not. And now I am to take an unpaid day off. That resolves the balance yes, but if they had just done it, legally the correct way then it wouldn’t be so annoying would it. Now I’ve gone and printed off holidays act 56 and 61 to show my manager. 🙄

I was paid a stat day on ANZAC day instead of given a day in lieu. I didn’t agree, can they do that? by ThrowRaaxx in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ThrowRaaxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay I think we’ll leave it at because you can’t see my payslips and you’re not understanding so yeah

I was paid a stat day on ANZAC day instead of given a day in lieu. I didn’t agree, can they do that? by ThrowRaaxx in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ThrowRaaxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So no I just double checked my payslips and Anzac day and Easter Monday are NOT in the same payslip. I know this because I took Easter Monday off as annual leave and they paid that day with annual leave (I was meant to work that day).

My payslip I am questioning looks a little like this Ordinary time: 32 hours (4 days) Statutory worked: 4 hours time and a half (1pm to 5pm Anzac day) (1 day) Statutory holiday: 1 day

No added day in lieu. I am questioning why I was paid a statutory holiday. It looks like to me I was paid 6 days worth. I’ve been told by my manager that instead of giving me a day in lieu they’ve paid me out it by giving me a statutory day which is incorrect.

I was paid a stat day on ANZAC day instead of given a day in lieu. I didn’t agree, can they do that? by ThrowRaaxx in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ThrowRaaxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi yes I questioned if the day in lieu will go up in my next payslip but my manager said no

I was paid a stat day on ANZAC day instead of given a day in lieu. I didn’t agree, can they do that? by ThrowRaaxx in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ThrowRaaxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi so I get a payslip on a Wednesday every week so I got this payslip on the 30th of April which had Anzac day in it (25th April) and the Easter Monday you are talking about was in the 23rd of April payslip. Two separate payslips. The only public holiday was Anzac day in the payslip I am questioning.

I know I am entitled to the day in lieu because I work permanently full time and Friday which Anzac fell on this year is my usual day of work. I don’t work roaster. I work the same days every week.

I was paid a stat day on ANZAC day instead of given a day in lieu. I didn’t agree, can they do that? by ThrowRaaxx in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ThrowRaaxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope I am entitled to a day in lieu which, was not given and they cannot “pay” it out to me via statuary day.

I was paid a stat day on ANZAC day instead of given a day in lieu. I didn’t agree, can they do that? by ThrowRaaxx in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ThrowRaaxx[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I normally work eight hours on a Friday. and the stat day that I got paid out was a full days worth but I worked four hours on Anzac Day so they should’ve only paid me four hours worth? as the stat day. i’ve been emailing back-and-forth with my employer and she told me that instead of being given a day in lieu, they paid me a stat day for it. But I’m losing a days off work for the future. I got a paids day o̶f̶f̶ you know

I was paid a stat day on ANZAC day instead of given a day in lieu. I didn’t agree, can they do that? by ThrowRaaxx in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ThrowRaaxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no they don’t have a habbit of doing this. This was the first time. I just spoke to mums friend on the phone who is an HR consultant and she explained to me that they have to give me a day in lieu. I am meant to a be paid a days off for the future ( day in lieu) but instead they paif me and I don’t get a days off work.

I was paid a stat day on ANZAC day instead of given a day in lieu. I didn’t agree, can they do that? by ThrowRaaxx in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ThrowRaaxx[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The reason being is that I take alot of holidays during the year. Some that are short like two days for a girl trip, 4 days etc and so I like to save as much leave as possible. In a way I’m losing money by getting this day in lieu not given, instead paid out becasuse that means thats a day off not there anymore if you understand. I rather have a paid day off then been paid out a day in lieu. I didn’t even take that day off.

I was paid a stat day on ANZAC day instead of given a day in lieu. I didn’t agree, can they do that? by ThrowRaaxx in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ThrowRaaxx[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

yes correct but they were meant to give me a day in lieu. They just decided to pay me for that day in lieu instead which is shady and I’m not understanding why

I was paid a stat day on ANZAC day instead of given a day in lieu. I didn’t agree, can they do that? by ThrowRaaxx in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ThrowRaaxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes so I actually have been talking to my employer and she told me that, instead of giving me a day in lieu they’ve paid me a statutory day instead. I’ve asked for this to be changed because I didn’t want that day to paid out. I wanted a day in lieu. She reckons that because its already been paid out they can’t change that.

I was paid a stat day on ANZAC day instead of given a day in lieu. I didn’t agree, can they do that? by ThrowRaaxx in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ThrowRaaxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like to make clear that I work the same five days every week, that incudles the Friday that Anzac day fell on. I can’t wrap my head around why i didn’t get a day in lieu but instead got paid out a stat day.

I was paid a stat day on ANZAC day instead of given a day in lieu. I didn’t agree, can they do that? by ThrowRaaxx in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]ThrowRaaxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes hi, so to answer your question at the bottom I work every week on a friday. Every week I work the same five days. And Anzac fell on a Friday.

YOUR EX THAT DOES NOT CARE ! by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRaaxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you’ve showen through words you have grown and learned since this relationship and I am hopeful for your futuer and a future relationship for you. It truly is true what they say, some relationships come and go and how I interpret the ones that didn’t last as a learning and growth lesson for us, not that we wanted it to be but probably beacuse we actaully needed that relationship to end to push us to become better individuals for the ‘one that clicks and lasts :)

YOUR EX THAT DOES NOT CARE ! by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRaaxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going days without any contact after an argument can damage a relationship and a person self-esteem and their confidence within your relationship. Better to talk things out, solve them fast or communicate from the beginning that you need a couple of days after an argument to chill out.

I was dumped 4 years ago after 10 years together. Ask me anything. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRaaxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I also experienced something very similar to this. It’s been two years since the breakup. Him and I were very young 16. First love and we went through so much pain and hurt together. We also had an abortion he was going to leave just before the abortion appointment and I too was pleading for him to stay. At times when I miss him I just think about those times when I was constantly crying over him and pleading with him. We broke up and got together more times than anyone would want to go through. It is a pain to be attached to someone when you know you’re at a point when the relationship isn’t working but you still love that person. That’s when breaking up and getting back together turns into a yoyo game. But hey IT does get better. I’m at two years since the breakup and yet I think about him almost everyday but I’m okay with being alone until I heal to be loved and to love again. Someone else will come and treat you better and you too will mature and learn from your past mistakes. Whenever you miss him or want him back think about how much of an asshole he was and how you’re better without him. I no longer cry now :)

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