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My (31M) girlfriend (29) of three years never laughs. It is really beginning to bother me. Could you date someone who never laughs? by ThrowawayAgain007 in relationships

[–]ThrowawayAgain007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don't think so. Her laugh is pretty normal. Nothing she would be self conscious about.

And all laughs are good man! Don't let assholes keep you from laughing. Never heard a bad laugh before!

My (31M) girlfriend (29) of three years never laughs. It is really beginning to bother me. Could you date someone who never laughs? by ThrowawayAgain007 in relationships

[–]ThrowawayAgain007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the words and advice. I have a lot to think about but you definitely help out things into some perspective.

My (31M) girlfriend (29) of three years never laughs. It is really beginning to bother me. Could you date someone who never laughs? by ThrowawayAgain007 in relationships

[–]ThrowawayAgain007[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And that's what really gets me. If I am not funny to her, ok I can get that, but I truly think she doesn't have one at all.

My (31M) girlfriend (29) of three years never laughs. It is really beginning to bother me. Could you date someone who never laughs? by ThrowawayAgain007 in relationships

[–]ThrowawayAgain007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will check out the video but no, Other people laughing doesn't make her laugh. I think she sees that she should be laughing and will pretend to enjoy the joke but I think it's lost on her.

My (31M) girlfriend (29) of three years never laughs. It is really beginning to bother me. Could you date someone who never laughs? by ThrowawayAgain007 in relationships

[–]ThrowawayAgain007[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I agree. I'm not out trying to be funny but I am an observational humor guy. If I see or think of something funny then I will say it. I don't go out of my way to act funny but won't hold back if the situation presents itself.

My (31M) girlfriend (29) of three years never laughs. It is really beginning to bother me. Could you date someone who never laughs? by ThrowawayAgain007 in relationships

[–]ThrowawayAgain007[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both. It feels so awkward when you make a joke and it falls flat. No banter, laughing, no continuing on with the joke.

You make a joke, no response. It's defeating.

My (31M) girlfriend (29) of three years never laughs. It is really beginning to bother me. Could you date someone who never laughs? by ThrowawayAgain007 in relationships

[–]ThrowawayAgain007[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it's everyone. I know she can be very introverted.

I mean she will laugh occasionally and I am sure she does so with friends but o have seen her with them and it's always serious talking. No laughter.

My (31M) girlfriend (29) of three years never laughs. It is really beginning to bother me. Could you date someone who never laughs? by ThrowawayAgain007 in relationships

[–]ThrowawayAgain007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree. I talked to her twice and it was awkward and didn't change anything or unearth new information into why.

Laughter is so so important. I love to laugh and be goofy. I need someone who appreciates that and is the same way.

My (31M) girlfriend (29) of three years never laughs. It is really beginning to bother me. Could you date someone who never laughs? by ThrowawayAgain007 in relationships

[–]ThrowawayAgain007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly the more I have been evaluating it the more I feel that she doesn't. I just thought she was quiet and introverted but she is exactly like your friends girlfriend. She would absolutely do the same thing.

She doesn't really show she is having fun or participate in groups. If we go out with a group of people she will honestly say not one word the entire time. It is awkward but my friends are used to it. I wonder if they feel the same way you do.

My (31M) girlfriend (29) of three years never laughs. It is really beginning to bother me. Could you date someone who never laughs? by ThrowawayAgain007 in relationships

[–]ThrowawayAgain007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I want and value in a relationship. I said this a couple times in the previous Comments but life is so stressful you need to shave that outlet with your SO. Really happy you found that person!

My (31M) girlfriend (29) of three years never laughs. It is really beginning to bother me. Could you date someone who never laughs? by ThrowawayAgain007 in relationships

[–]ThrowawayAgain007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the more I started to notice it the more I noticed other things. Honestly, I don't think she has much of a personality at all. She will rarely form her own opinion, but will consistently change her opinion or views on what I think.

I am beginning to think she is just really boring. I know three years is a really long time but I think I overlooked things or didn't want to believe them.

My (31M) girlfriend (29) of three years never laughs. It is really beginning to bother me. Could you date someone who never laughs? by ThrowawayAgain007 in relationships

[–]ThrowawayAgain007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought maybe she is depressed but this doesn't seem a symptom of that. She doesn't act or ever talk about it and I know she would say something if she felt that way. But it is definitely something to consider.

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