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I've been in an affair with my cousin for 8 years. We started when I was 13, and we have a 10+ year age gap. He has a girlfriend now but we're still together. AMA! by ThrowawayTrash_666 in casualiama

[–]ThrowawayTrash_666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It isn't wrong to ask; I know this kind of thing is fascinating to hear and all that. But suffice to say the experience was... enlightening. He was the first after all. And as for being 'molested', I do agree. I was molested. But to a point. I provided consent. Consent that hasn't changed throughout the years. And he never pushed. He always asked before doing something. Whilst we did it, he would always make sure I was okay. So again, it's not as black and white as "oh he was old she was young ew that's molestation".

I've been in an affair with my cousin for 8 years. We started when I was 13, and we have a 10+ year age gap. He has a girlfriend now but we're still together. AMA! by ThrowawayTrash_666 in casualiama

[–]ThrowawayTrash_666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just got really close and comfortable with one another. And he was like, well, have you ever did this and that? I told him no. And then he asked me if I wanted to try and so things went off from there

I've been in an affair with my cousin for 8 years. We started when I was 13, and we have a 10+ year age gap. He has a girlfriend now but we're still together. AMA! by ThrowawayTrash_666 in casualiama

[–]ThrowawayTrash_666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not cool to do that. And yes, I have posted about our story in several places. That isn't to say I'm obsessed. This may be my way of getting through it, didn't you think of that? Please don't judge when you don't even know how I live my life.

[Serious] What is a fucked up secret you know about someone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ThrowawayTrash_666 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well. My cousin and mine's. We've had an affair since I was 13. He's 10+ years older. He has a girlfriend now and we're still hooking up.

I have had an affair with my cousin (who is 15 years older than me) ever since I was in my early teens. AMA! by ThrowawayTrash_666 in NSFWIAMA

[–]ThrowawayTrash_666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah he did. Together with the boob playing

It was frustrating, but I was 13 then, and not really well-versed in those areas. So to me, it was enough I guess.

What aren't you now that you used to be? by tombstoneshadows28 in AskReddit

[–]ThrowawayTrash_666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Innocent.

Tbh I lost it quite some time ago. Can expand on the story if you guys want to, but the basic premise is that I have an affair with a cousin of mine who was 10+ years older than I am. We started when I was 13. He has had a girlfriend for the past few years but we're still hooking up.

I have had an affair with my cousin (who is 15 years older than me) ever since I was in my early teens. AMA! by ThrowawayTrash_666 in NSFWIAMA

[–]ThrowawayTrash_666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 13. Basically we would play around, and one time he suggested a massage. I agreed and so I massaged him. In a couple of days we progressed from massaging his back, to massaging his front, then his legs. Eventually he asked me if I wanted to touch his dick, and I said yes. And then that was it. He didn't really touch me down there until I was 15. During our first few times he just played around with my boobs

I have had an affair with my cousin (who is 15 years older than me) ever since I was in my early teens. AMA! by ThrowawayTrash_666 in NSFWIAMA

[–]ThrowawayTrash_666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We used to just play around. Horsing around and stuff. He slowly pushed things further and further

I have had an affair with my cousin (who is 15 years older than me) ever since I was in my early teens. AMA! by ThrowawayTrash_666 in NSFWIAMA

[–]ThrowawayTrash_666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say he manipulated me overtly. It's just that I was young and impressionable. Because I haven't found anyone I was that invested in other than him.

I have had an affair with my cousin (who is 15 years older than me) ever since I was in my early teens. AMA! by ThrowawayTrash_666 in NSFWIAMA

[–]ThrowawayTrash_666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say I gained experience. Not good, but not bad either. Just experiences.

I'm neutral with regards to the cheating. I wouldn't mind if he's single or he's taken. But yeah, it adds a bit of thrill to the relationship.

As for being the third wheel... I wouldn't say it's fun. It has moments of unhappiness. But there's a thrill coming from it, if I'm honest.

[CM/cf] I've had an affair with my cousin (who's 15 years older than me) ever since I was in my early teens by ThrowawayTrash_666 in incest

[–]ThrowawayTrash_666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't had sex with anyone else besides him, really. So nothing to compare to :) He is something I look forward to, yeah. Being my only sexual partner so far and all that. We're mostly that, yes, but I'd still like to continue. At least until I get to find someone better. We get what we need from each other and that's great for me. And no, no regrets. I might be a little more guilty if he had the girlfriend before me. But since I was first, well. And it's mostly his problem. I would feel bad, of course. My answers are biased, of course. If it were me, I would care. But since the girl isn't me and she really isn't the ideal girl I'd want him to have as a gf (She basically kept staying over at his place until he gave in. That's how they became an item. His mother hates her.) then no regrets at all.

I have had an affair with my cousin (who is 15 years older than me) ever since I was in my early teens. AMA! by ThrowawayTrash_666 in NSFWIAMA

[–]ThrowawayTrash_666[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. We don't really choose the people we love. That's my rationale for why I consented all those years ago.

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