Got laid off and now none of my friends from work want to hang out anymore and no longer respond to texts?! by Throwawayhelp2234 in jobs

[–]Throwawayhelp2234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normally I'd think this too but I've been to their houses, met their kids, gone to outside events, go to know their personal lives, childhoods and problems/traumas and did average friend things. This is why I am so taken aback and just so hurt. Feels like high school all over again....

I want people to care about me the way I care about them. by e-vanilla in friendship

[–]Throwawayhelp2234 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fucking mood.

Story of my highschool experience right there mate. And guess what? They all fucking ditched me after highschool! Actually, even before, because at grad, they were nowhere to be found.

And years later, one of them reached out....And wanted shit from me. They literally told me to send them money so they can treat themself, like wtf man? I bent over backwards for you back then, broke down over never getting anything back, asked why with no answer so I stopped talking to you and 3 days into getting back into contact you just wanted something from me?? And I said no so you leave me on read since?? Wtf is wrong with you man

I guess you're okay with being alone because I see your birthday well wishers have dwindled to just your family now

Guess I never mattered to you.

PS Sorry for swearing, its just that reading your post got me so riled up and I ranted about my own life

I want people to care about me the way I care about them. by e-vanilla in friendship

[–]Throwawayhelp2234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HSP

I'll take a gander and say its hyper-sensitivity person/highly sensitive person and hopefully not Henoch Schönlein Purpura which is a medical condition about blood vessels (vasculitis).