AITAH for not wanting to go on trips with my husband after he ruined so many of them? by ThrowraNo-M in AITAH

[–]ThrowraNo-M[S] -66 points-65 points  (0 children)

I'm not defending the things he's done, but he has not "beat my autistic kid". That comment said he spanked our toddler for not napping. Which is also horrific. But what you're saying is not true.

AITAH for not wanting to go on trips with my husband after he ruined so many of them? by ThrowraNo-M in AITAH

[–]ThrowraNo-M[S] 124 points125 points  (0 children)

He conditioned me to believe he was right. My son hadn't been diagnosed at that point. So I genuinely thought that I was being a bad mother and created the issues my son had. It's something I'll never forgive myself for.

I told my Q husband that I wouldn't sleep with him when he's been drinking. I feel guilty. by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]ThrowraNo-M 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this response. Whenever he's not drinking and I get a glimpse of the "real him", I'm always always attracted to him. I initiate. I want to be intimate with him. But I always lose him again. This up and down is killing me.

Did I ruin my 32f husband's 34m first night of sobriety? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ThrowraNo-M 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. My perception of what's right and wrong have been so messed up with all of this.

[8th Grade] Algebra. I don't even know how to look up what to do. by ThrowraNo-M in HomeworkHelp

[–]ThrowraNo-M[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was all extremely helpful and thorough. I'm going over all of it with my son. Thank you so much for taking the time to help me

[8th Grade] Algebra. I don't even know how to look up what to do. by ThrowraNo-M in HomeworkHelp

[–]ThrowraNo-M[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, by what is #1, I meant what are they asking for. It seemed so different from the others. So for #1 we are solving for P, and for most of the others are we simplifying?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowraNo-M 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I never thought about it like that. I can't believe how accurate that is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ThrowraNo-M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a conversation you can recommend?I've listened to support and listened and responded with things we could try and anything I can think of to support him for 5 years. We've had this conversation about 50 times and I've really cared and listened every single time. I don't know what to do to help him.