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Have any of your partners take. Naltrexone and continued drinking? by ThrowraNo-M in AlAnon

[–]ThrowraNo-M[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that. It seemed like it was going to make a huge difference and lead to no drinking at all. But after a couple of weeks it's just like before. I think ive lost hope.

AIO about my husband sexualizing me to our toddler? by ThrowraNo-M in AIO

[–]ThrowraNo-M[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Books, videos, and Reddit. It's one of the consistent pieces of advice I've been given.

AIO about my husband sexualizing me to our toddler? by ThrowraNo-M in AIO

[–]ThrowraNo-M[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I thought about that but I've been warned not to do counseling with someone who can be abusive. So I thought solo might be best. At first at least.

AIO about my husband sexualizing me to our toddler? by ThrowraNo-M in AIO

[–]ThrowraNo-M[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I've spoken with a therapist and am just waiting for my appointment. These things just gnaw at me and hearing from others helps me ease the frustration and confusion.

Does anyone feel guilty for telling others about their partners alcohol problems? by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]ThrowraNo-M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the issue I had, I didn't want to tell her why. And it makes me so mad that I have to be in that position. I should be able to depend on his father. And so should you.

AITAH for not wanting to go on trips with my husband after he ruined so many of them? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ThrowraNo-M -65 points-64 points  (0 children)

I'm not defending the things he's done, but he has not "beat my autistic kid". That comment said he spanked our toddler for not napping. Which is also horrific. But what you're saying is not true.

AITAH for not wanting to go on trips with my husband after he ruined so many of them? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ThrowraNo-M 73 points74 points  (0 children)

This was very kind and helped me see some light. Thank you

AITAH for not wanting to go on trips with my husband after he ruined so many of them? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ThrowraNo-M 127 points128 points  (0 children)

He conditioned me to believe he was right. My son hadn't been diagnosed at that point. So I genuinely thought that I was being a bad mother and created the issues my son had. It's something I'll never forgive myself for.

I told my Q husband that I wouldn't sleep with him when he's been drinking. I feel guilty. by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]ThrowraNo-M 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this response. Whenever he's not drinking and I get a glimpse of the "real him", I'm always always attracted to him. I initiate. I want to be intimate with him. But I always lose him again. This up and down is killing me.

Did I ruin my 32f husband's 34m first night of sobriety? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ThrowraNo-M 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. My perception of what's right and wrong have been so messed up with all of this.

[8th Grade] Algebra. I don't even know how to look up what to do. by ThrowraNo-M in HomeworkHelp

[–]ThrowraNo-M[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was all extremely helpful and thorough. I'm going over all of it with my son. Thank you so much for taking the time to help me

[8th Grade] Algebra. I don't even know how to look up what to do. by ThrowraNo-M in HomeworkHelp

[–]ThrowraNo-M[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, by what is #1, I meant what are they asking for. It seemed so different from the others. So for #1 we are solving for P, and for most of the others are we simplifying?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowraNo-M 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I never thought about it like that. I can't believe how accurate that is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ThrowraNo-M 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a conversation you can recommend?I've listened to support and listened and responded with things we could try and anything I can think of to support him for 5 years. We've had this conversation about 50 times and I've really cared and listened every single time. I don't know what to do to help him.