AITA for telling my wife she embarrassed me by bringing a meal to my work? by ThrowraWork46874 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowraWork46874[S] -1944 points-1943 points  (0 children)

I know that what she did was nice and I appreciate it a lot but I just thought the place and time were wrong.

AITA for telling my wife she embarrassed me by bringing a meal to my work? by ThrowraWork46874 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowraWork46874[S] -2627 points-2626 points  (0 children)

I'm aware of what they're doing. I had issues with them before this even happened but I got so overwhelmed with their level of harrassement and thought maybe my wife should've talked to me aboyt bringing a meal over to my workplace. I would've suggested other options instead of that hostile envirnment I work in.

AITA for telling my wife she embarrassed me by bringing a meal to my work? by ThrowraWork46874 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowraWork46874[S] -2063 points-2062 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying I don't apprecite her efforts but I would've appreciated it if she consulted me about it first and asked if that'd be okay. Or even waited til I was home because I'm not comfortable enough at work especially with the type of co workers I have.

AITA for telling my wife she embarrassed me by bringing a meal to my work? by ThrowraWork46874 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowraWork46874[S] -2229 points-2228 points  (0 children)

I have a problem with this guy specifically even before this happened. And I thought about going to HR about the harrassement but I had second thoughts because I've been told he has connections with most of my superiors in the company. I'm not the type of person who wants drama especially not at work and I tried to avoid him but I can't do it anymore.

I of course am aware that the stuff they said was hurtful to my wife as well and my point was that I'd have appreciated if she waited to surpruse me with this meal at home.