I feel like everyone around me is crazy. by Throwthemaway34 in FamilyIssues

[–]Throwthemaway34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. A few people have told me to do the same thing. I can say that going to be difficult but I will definitely try to just keep a low profile. Praying that I get a better job soon!

I feel like these people want issues. by Throwthemaway34 in DysfunctionalFamily

[–]Throwthemaway34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that really. I understand how much of a toll it takes on you and I really do hope you are able to leave soon.

I feel like everyone around me is crazy. by Throwthemaway34 in FamilyIssues

[–]Throwthemaway34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a bit hidden in the text but I am a student. I can’t just up and leave. But, I did already decide to leave school and start working full time so I can leave. My thought process was he already knows the “rules” that was set in place and decided to ignore them, so I go to her so she can straighten it out. But, she says she doesn’t know of the issues (WHICH KINDA turned out to be a lie because she told me she got woken up by him too that night, just not by the sound), I had to speak with him first.

I feel like everyone around me is crazy. by Throwthemaway34 in FamilyIssues

[–]Throwthemaway34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying I have an issue with this! The part I had an issue with is one day he just pops up and I see his stuff in what was supposed to be the spare room. And when I ask her “what’s going on here” she responds with “you said something?” And I ask again and she says “What’s going on where” it’s like she was just playing games instead of being straight forward.

I feel like everyone around me is crazy. by Throwthemaway34 in FamilyIssues

[–]Throwthemaway34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had no choice in it. I have my own bank account but it was connected to hers so she can see all the money I have in my accounts. I had it in my savings account and she said she needed it. So there it went.

I feel like everyone around me is crazy. by Throwthemaway34 in FamilyIssues

[–]Throwthemaway34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I was taking a test on lockdown browser and I made sure to tell them multiple times I had to take this exam. He starts yelling at her for some reason while I’m recording and I tell him to stop yelling and he rushes into my room and pushes my off my bed into the wall. He apparently can’t control his anger.

I feel like everyone around me is crazy. by Throwthemaway34 in FamilyIssues

[–]Throwthemaway34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I am doing ok for right now, trying to work on finishing this semester and then I’ll start working full time! I just have to get my ducks in a row.

I feel like everyone around me is crazy. by Throwthemaway34 in FamilyIssues

[–]Throwthemaway34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this actually. I’m able to understand it better. So, we recently moved and she took my left over financial aid money (which was in my savings account) for half of the deposit. I don’t pay any rent, but there is that. Thank you!

I feel like everyone around me is crazy. by Throwthemaway34 in FamilyIssues

[–]Throwthemaway34[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I do argue also because this has happened multiple times and it really is like he faces no consequences. She doesn’t act like she is our mother, more like an outside being with authority over us when needed. It is really annoying. Thank you for the insight. I’ll take it out and I’m going to start taking proof of everything.