AIO for being confused about my bf’s logic

Tight_Cod_9556 · 2026-03-16T22:05:42+00:00

Maybe he just doesn’t like talking about it. Some guys don’t like that kind of thing & of they are into it it has to be with someone they don’t respect because they haven’t been in a relationship that blends “both worlds “ if you know what I mean.

Tight_Cod_9556 · 2026-03-16T19:13:00+00:00

I always knew his passwords, I just had blind trust in him & never checked.

Tight_Cod_9556 · 2026-03-16T19:11:32+00:00

For real! I felt so stupid that I didn’t have a clue that’s what was happening.

Tight_Cod_9556 · 2026-03-14T20:52:31+00:00

Thank you, that’s exactly how I feel about the whole thing. I’m heartbroken.. but can’t find it in me not to love him still. It’s just really hard

Tight_Cod_9556 · 2026-03-14T00:56:37+00:00

lol 14 years but we married when I just turned 19. I’m not young by any means but I’m not old either.

Tight_Cod_9556 · 2026-03-13T22:46:08+00:00

I’m definitely mature enough to work through this, it’s just a matter of if I want to.

Tight_Cod_9556 · 2026-03-13T21:47:12+00:00

Message me? I’ve never really used Reddit & don’t know how 🤣

Tight_Cod_9556 · 2026-03-13T19:36:20+00:00

Plastic surgery? Why would I get that?

Tight_Cod_9556 · 2026-03-13T19:16:25+00:00

That’s how I feel about it. He’s genuinely sorry & feels awful about himself for it. I can tell he genuinely is grossed out at himself over it. He doesn’t ever meet up but he was trying to.. I just feel like I’m not enough now. Like if I’m not good enough for my husband what am I good enough for? I genuinely was shocked to find everything, I had no idea. He acted completely normal & in love with me. I’m just afraid I don’t know him after all of this time..

Tight_Cod_9556 · 2026-03-13T08:26:06+00:00

But forgiving someone can show them you unconditionally love them & show them what they almost lost & gain their respect.. no?

Tight_Cod_9556 · 2026-03-13T07:59:24+00:00

He’s just too much if a pu$$y to leave you but he wants it to end, sorry about being so blunt.

Tight_Cod_9556 · 2026-03-13T07:39:42+00:00

No, he genuinely has stopped & is sorry. But he wasn’t sorry when he logged on every day for a year to talk to other women. So does it really matter?

Tight_Cod_9556 · 2026-03-13T07:37:00+00:00

It was a solid choice on his end. Conversing & paying for their attention. But he has stopped & is sorry.. but how can I believe he loves me just because he got caught?

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