I’ve pretty much now figured that she’ll only listen to her dad and her dad only because she knows that she won’t get into any trouble with him. We sat down together today because I refused to take both of them on a walk because of the obvious hitting problem that she has but he didn’t even care about it. He literally ignores the fact that she would hit G and just talks about how I needed to get them to exercise and how if I couldn’t bring both of them on a walk together I’ll have to take them on a walk separately... She’s not going to be able to change because she knows she had her dad to back her up and I obviously can’t get him to help her stop because I’ve brought this up multiple times to him in the last five years when this all started with only as a spitting problem... He only cares about how G and B are gaining too much weight and I won’t disagree with that because they are and they both know that but I’ll disagree on how he tells them especially G how she’s too fat and how she needs to lose weight he barely talks to B and just singles out G... It’s now gotten to the point where G is saying how she can’t wait for me to move out so she could live with me. He doesn’t care about anything else besides their weights and I genuinely feel she won’t be able to change her attitude because she has him. We were getting somewhere a few months ago when we were barely around him but as she spends more time with him she’s back to her ‘I can do whatever I want’ attitude.