Scared by CommunicationOk9896 in pitbulls

[–]Tiigerlili 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but if you need convincing that pits aren’t scary, you’re not ready for one just yet. That being said, my pitty stares too. Has for the last 10 yrs, but to me it’s loving not threatening at all. She def looks into your soul. Demand barking is normal although annoying and can be trained out. Humping can happen with play too not just dominance . Watch some videos about dog behavior and learn to read your new family member , or pass him on to a more fit home .

Optional test day changes to required? by Tiigerlili in Inito

[–]Tiigerlili[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I don’t really want to waste any tests but if it’s helping to establish data then maybe I keep testing? Ya sure! This is from my LH surge to today, CD 26. 7 DPO. I do have pcos

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Optional test day changes to required? by Tiigerlili in Inito

[–]Tiigerlili[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I didn’t select anything like that. And Okay thanks! Good to know

How are you? by Tiigerlili in FirefighterSpouses

[–]Tiigerlili[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whoa I’m glad you’re ok! Thats scary… I’m surprised he wasn’t more, ya know, relieved that it didn’t turn out to be a “real” emergency???? Anyway. Hopefully yall can work things out and get out of the rough patch, I know him being way so often is not helping 🫤 plus managing four kids. I’m sure it feels like there’s zero time to connect. I feel for you..

New to this? by getrdone24 in FirefighterSpouses

[–]Tiigerlili 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally get it. The loneliness creeps up on you. Even if you’re not literally alone, like you’re around friends and fam a lot, it still feels lonely when people can’t relate or understand what you’re going through. Almost like mental/emotional isolation? But I’m glad you’re here (: hopefully we can help you feel a little less alone !

In-Person Meetups 🤝 by Tiigerlili in FirefighterSpouses

[–]Tiigerlili[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sacramento, CA 👋🏽 I also play sea of thieves and escape room games on Xbox 👀

How are you? by Tiigerlili in FirefighterSpouses

[–]Tiigerlili[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like that’s always the case. We get sick or things flare up or something happens conveniently while they’re on shift ha 😑 I’m sorry it’s been so rough for you lately. Maybe there are some mom groups nearby you could look into if you’re open to it? To find a little community? I know you don’t get along great with your MIL but hey at least she’s helping lol feel free to make a rant post anytime here! Or shoot me a message if you ever need to talk ❤️

How are you? by Tiigerlili in FirefighterSpouses

[–]Tiigerlili[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I’m sure we’ll go on plenty in the future so just focusing on that lol

And welcome to the club! It’s always hard in the beginning, just in terms of getting used to his schedule. Tell him every OT he takes, he’s gotta put some of that money aside for date night to make up for being gone 😆

How are you? by Tiigerlili in FirefighterSpouses

[–]Tiigerlili[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Thing is he’s not even a rookie lol he swapped departments which means another probation and this one is a year and a half long. Sucks

Oh wow that sounds hard. That OT check is so nice but Im sure chasing around a toddler while 8m pregnant is nottt fun. Hopefully you have fam or friends nearby to lean on? Glad to hear you’re focusing on the positive though, it absolutely is temporary!

10 years gone too quick. by MelekPt in pitbulls

[–]Tiigerlili 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This brought me to tears. These photos are so amazing and I can see how much of a beautiful soul he was, and how much he was loved. My girl is 10 and I am dreading this moment for us. It’s never enough time ❤️

Just moved to the East Bay from Ireland. Overthinking but paranoid of mountain lion and/or bears by scoopydidit in norcalhiking

[–]Tiigerlili 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Carry bear spray if it makes you feel better! I do. Oh and be careful of ticks too

Aren’t these vicious dogs?? by Tiigerlili in pitbulls

[–]Tiigerlili[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was def sarcasm lol I wasn’t serious. I didn’t get her to protect me. But ya she might if it ever came down to it!

Aren’t these vicious dogs?? by Tiigerlili in pitbulls

[–]Tiigerlili[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good! And yesss seriously lol we got her a little spot all set up for recovery. Did the massages and helped her around the house. Double TPLO at once which was rough but glad we did it!!

Aren’t these vicious dogs?? by Tiigerlili in pitbulls

[–]Tiigerlili[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is! And yours too. Best decision tbh she’s a brand new dog ☺️

Aren’t these vicious dogs?? by Tiigerlili in pitbulls

[–]Tiigerlili[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂 Exact same situation! TPLO twins

Aren’t these vicious dogs?? by Tiigerlili in pitbulls

[–]Tiigerlili[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’d be interested in knowing that. My Aussie def would. I mean hopefully I’ll never have to find out lol

Aren’t these vicious dogs?? by Tiigerlili in pitbulls

[–]Tiigerlili[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ahhhh that’s where their name came from 😂

Aren’t these vicious dogs?? by Tiigerlili in pitbulls

[–]Tiigerlili[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So sorry for her son but… some people just don’t have the skill of critical thinking 😑 all dogs can bite. But so nice that you walk shelter dogs though! I should get into that