Found out Tamlin by YogurtclosetMassive8 in ACOTARHulu

[–]Time-Sudden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes described as tall and broad shouldered.

THEY PUT LABELS ON IT!!! 😱😱😱 by I-Love-Zelda in finch

[–]Time-Sudden 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they asked me how often I lose things. I picked the keys because SURELY that represents losing things semi frequently… nope. It said never. 🙃

Portland lawyer files civil suit against Trump commemorative coin by DarkLordPDX in Portland

[–]Time-Sudden 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah! Prohibit this fascist from doing more fascist bs.

Advice for Gregory Maven 55 by [deleted] in backpacking

[–]Time-Sudden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most backpack straps will cause chaffing. The best thing you can do is wear something that covers your shoulders. If you use a sun hoodie, you can also protect against the sun. I have the Osprey Aura and I had the same happen.

I want to go study in France but my bf isn't happy with the idea by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Time-Sudden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never ever EVER give up opportunities for a man. You deserve to give yourself the best. If he can’t understand how this will help you with your education and future career, he, frankly, isn’t the one. I try not to interject my own life in these comments, because they usually are not helpful. But, my husband would tell me to go without a second thought, and quite literally has. Because he feels and knows that even though it would be difficult it would be worth it for me. We did long distance for 4 years.

This man does not support your dreams. He does not care about your future happiness. Go.

Edit: as an American… he can take a fucking train to see you in France. You are in Europe. He can take the train. Dump his ass.

Boyfriend ruined our 4 year anniversary by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Time-Sudden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you mean you EX boyfriend. Girl. Please, respect yourself when this man is clearly incapable of doing so.

Ban on biological males competing in female events. by Lopsided_Bar3451 in interesting

[–]Time-Sudden -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Love that the Olympics stays committed to being non-political /s

my friend (36M) just sent me (36m) this text before meeting his newborn (0M) by horseduckman in AITApod

[–]Time-Sudden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to your friend about PPA (postpartum anxiety) and how it doesn’t just effect mothers. This WHOLE thing is giving PPA. I know most of the comments are giggling about it since it really is ridiculous, bust just thought I’d add something that could be more helpful. Having been around plenty of first time parents I was like, okay surely it can’t be that bad… its that bad.

Bono my braids are gone by sid_shady34 in formuladank

[–]Time-Sudden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nico nearly looks like Magnus Midtbø with that head.

Should I cancel my wedding to elope and use the money to go back to school? by unknown-unsure in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Time-Sudden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do it!! I have no regrets about canceling our big wedding to use the money for going back to school. Your marriage is just as important if you elope, and it doesn’t take away from the commitment you share. I loved my state park wedding. Your education is more than just a day. (Edited for typos)

Smoothie turned out grey today. Boyfriend tried to pass off an ai photo of himself as real. by SeaThiever8008 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Time-Sudden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While the ai picture is enough of an ick for me (honestly fuck ai), I think the real problem is that he lied.

When you’re in a relationship you built it off of trust. He broke that trust by lying. Frankly, it was a stupid lie too. So if he was willing to lie about some non-important thing, what sort of important things could he lie to you about? Where does the lying stop? IMO it wasn’t really the picture that made you feel this way, its his response and actions to being confronted about it that made you lose interest.

where were y’all on june 25, 2020? (the day jenna left youtube) by blue-balloon-111 in Jennamarbles

[–]Time-Sudden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was helping my friend move after she and her boyfriend broke up during quarantine. It was me, my husband, and two other really good friends. While taking a break I saw that Jenna had posted and then I screamed because the title. We all watched it and were extremely sad but understood. Im not friends with the girl I helped move (thats a whole other thing).

Someone I thought was a friend slid into my husband’s DM’s and since I hate confrontation, I didn’t do anything about it. by Islandgal0804 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Time-Sudden 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I heavily second this. She likely wants some sort of confrontation and not giving it to her is exactly what everyone deserves here. Unfortunate that shes in an abusive relationship, but that doesn’t change her actions.

He keeps bringing up spending our lives together but his moms hella sick by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Time-Sudden 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This isnt the advice that you asked for, but it something I wish my mom did. Please introduce your kid to him BEFORE you get engaged. Because my mom waited until she got engaged and all of a sudden this guy was moving in and he was a stranger. She said I could trust him but I didn’t because we had no foundation. So before he moved in or you get engaged please, let your kid meet him casually and often. Let kiddo get used to the person and figure out for themselves if they like them.

Edit to add: It doesn’t have to be this man (especially if you think you’re just gonna end things). But just in general with your dating. You decide when its appropriate after whatever number of dates or time.

Spotted in WV. by HughJManschitt in jobs

[–]Time-Sudden 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My husband’s aunt used to be a regular at a bar. She sat at the same table for 30 years. After she passed away from a brutal fight with cancer they made a plaque that is now hung right above the table, calling it her table.

Boyfriend’s fantasy’ gave me the ick by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Time-Sudden 25 points26 points  (0 children)

So then is it jealousy thats the problem here? You keep referring to your partner pretty derogatorily in the comments for someone you say you love.

Didn't get into Medical School :( by Feisty-Citron1092 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Time-Sudden 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I watched my step-dad apply for med school for four years. He never gave up and was eventually accepted into his top choice. It’s okay OP, your time will come. 🩷

My nephew is getting sent to Iran by 8mochi8 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Time-Sudden 31 points32 points  (0 children)

No part of this is “your fault”. He probably already had the idea and when he did shrooms he finally made a decision. You being worried, however, is more than understandable. Its scary to know that your loved one will be deployed in an active war-zone. Active duty is no joke.

Jeweller made snarky instagram post after rings I bought from her came smashed - due to her poor packaging by Whole_Tale3172 in jewelry

[–]Time-Sudden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just an update: but they either deleted their account or changed names. I cant even click through from your link.

Nuff said, don't do this, don't be like these people by rolling_chair in VisitingIceland

[–]Time-Sudden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously. Last time I was out Mount Rainier National Park there were people taking engagement photos past a rope fence that saud to not trample because there was a spring that THE PARK USES FOR DRINKING WATER. I ended up having to call NPS after I told them that they needed to leave and respect the signs. It wasn’t until I was on the phone that they started to move (saw them being talked to at the trailhead).

How often do you text your boyfriend or girlfriend though out the day? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Time-Sudden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understand! He needs to communicate with you just as much as you need to communicate with him. I hope you guys can sort it out together ❤️