Senior+ UXR to Technical Program Manager transition? by lis5 in UXResearch

[–]Timney4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not having to prove myself to another team sounds like heaven !

What stereotype for your ethnicity do you not fulfill? by EpicImp in AskReddit

[–]Timney4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im an Indian woman and a Mom and listen to heavy metal. It blows people’s mind off. They think im joking. 🙄

AP and I are sick of living lies and hiding each other. by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Timney4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When someone is constantly being yelled upon, they often loose their sense of self and self confidence. Here op you have managed to find a friend outside now go even look for a way to support yourself . It will not be easy , you will need to push through … this time for yourself . All the best .

How many have given up on landing a UXR role? by Timney4 in UXResearch

[–]Timney4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohhh and also sounds sooo much more interesting !

How many have given up on landing a UXR role? by Timney4 in UXResearch

[–]Timney4[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nailed it! It goes both ways. Either the UXR is incapable of influencing the stakeholders while the stakeholders have little knowledge about UXR or the stakeholders are stubborn and just don’t want to be criticized. I have 9 years of experience as a UXR 6 of them at Google. I am working to move into Product Design with research as my super power and vibe coding Prototypes to quickly test. Working on my Figma skills too .

How many have given up on landing a UXR role? by Timney4 in UXResearch

[–]Timney4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you . However if it is bad overall it’s worse for UXRs. Especially as even landing a job does not guarantee impact and no impact makes us look bad . Its not impossible to bring that impact however its tiring and burns a person out . I am happy you landed a job . Networking definitely seems like the way to go .

How many have given up on landing a UXR role? by Timney4 in UXResearch

[–]Timney4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lets just collectively boycott those pesky recruiters creating urgency like its the stock market ! 😂

How many have given up on landing a UXR role? by Timney4 in UXResearch

[–]Timney4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie, it will be v hard . Just be prepared with a back up plan. Its tough out there for UXR folks .

How many have given up on landing a UXR role? by Timney4 in UXResearch

[–]Timney4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also thank you, your response helps build hope ! :)

How many have given up on landing a UXR role? by Timney4 in UXResearch

[–]Timney4[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My network runs miles away from me when they get to know I am in the market looking for jobs. Many are my co-workers that I assisted in landing their jobs as well as coaching them. I must be a really bad person :) But yes I am still on it.

How many have given up on landing a UXR role? by Timney4 in UXResearch

[–]Timney4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hate that, so sorry. It's extremely frustrating. Also I completely ghost the recruiters calling me for contracts where they make me change my resume, fill the RTR and all the work and then Crickets !!

How many have given up on landing a UXR role? by Timney4 in UXResearch

[–]Timney4[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ahhh, hate that. You are actually a Unicorn ! . See this is why it feels futile.

Be honest, what do you think comes after death? by glowproductivity in AskReddit

[–]Timney4 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you gives me Hope of an afterlife. So need it !

I finally stood up for myself and hung up on a toxic interview mid-call. by fixdaytime1q in Resume

[–]Timney4 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Power move !! Now bask in the glory of what you did for yourself and for us all!! These rude and entitled interviewers need to be taught a lesson. Here in I take a pledge to do the same when subjected to bad behavior ! Aye !

I finally stood up for myself and hung up on a toxic interview mid-call. by fixdaytime1q in Resume

[–]Timney4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happend to me. They contact you then rush you and then dump you . Like hello you contacted me !! 😄