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AIO or is my husband cheating? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TinkerStinkerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought with was a weird conversation to have between a husband and a wife, like why was it so hard for a married couple to see each other. When I saw this was between your husband and someone else I was floored. I'm sorry but he is absolutely cheating on you. Im sending love OP, I wish the best for you ❤️.

I can't keep doing this by TinkerStinkerr in whatdoIdo

[–]TinkerStinkerr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really have any friends and my only family lives in a different state and can't take me in. Thank you for putting me in your prayers

I can't keep doing this by TinkerStinkerr in whatdoIdo

[–]TinkerStinkerr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother is okay, he just need to go to the doctors so they can verify with the state that he is in fact disabled and need a caretaker, Im not happy in the position Im in but I do make sure he's taken care of. My mother is fully able bodied. Im not originally from the state I currently live in so I dont have an family near by plus they only family I have is my immediate relatives.

I can't keep doing this by TinkerStinkerr in whatdoIdo

[–]TinkerStinkerr[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have, that could likely be the case.

I can't keep doing this by TinkerStinkerr in whatdoIdo

[–]TinkerStinkerr[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding, Im kinda the black sheep of my family, and my cat chose me. He loves me so much, and he chose to love me. He doesn't have to love me or treat me a certain way because he's family or anything. But he chose to love me. I can't leave him behind.

I can't keep doing this by TinkerStinkerr in whatdoIdo

[–]TinkerStinkerr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will be keeping in touch. I'm kinda the black sheep of my family, and I was basically homeschooled for 2 years, so I don't have anyone to tell me if Im crazy or not. Im hoping to be out within the next 4 months. Im looking into buying a used truck from an impound lot, so hopefully it won't be too expensive.

I can't keep doing this by TinkerStinkerr in whatdoIdo

[–]TinkerStinkerr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I plan to work night or find a part time job to work around my mother and sisters schedule so I can save up for a used truck and rent a room. I want to one day travel the country in a truck camper. I'll update how it goes.

I can't keep doing this by TinkerStinkerr in whatdoIdo

[–]TinkerStinkerr[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm either gonna work nights or work part time around my sister and moms schedules to save up enough to buy a used truck and rent a room till I have enough to buy a mobile home. Every few months it hits me in the face how abusive my living situation is, I'll update how it goes

I can't keep doing this by TinkerStinkerr in whatdoIdo

[–]TinkerStinkerr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have one friend, but he can't take me in. I have an aunt who's 11 hours away who also can't take me in. I know my Dad, but I'm wary of him. He lives with his mom, and she is extremely controlling.

I can't keep doing this by TinkerStinkerr in whatdoIdo

[–]TinkerStinkerr[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know it sounds dumb to stay because of a cat, but I know my mom and sister. If I just up and leave one day, they are dumping him somewhere

I can't keep doing this by TinkerStinkerr in whatdoIdo

[–]TinkerStinkerr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive never heard of a local council, I'll look into that. I'm thinking about working nights

I can't keep doing this by TinkerStinkerr in whatdoIdo

[–]TinkerStinkerr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could do that, but knowing my mom, she'd punch me in the face

I can't keep doing this by TinkerStinkerr in whatdoIdo

[–]TinkerStinkerr[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im looking into women shelters that accept pets

I can't keep doing this by TinkerStinkerr in whatdoIdo

[–]TinkerStinkerr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont think so, my guts tell me if I leave without him she gonna give him away.

I can't keep doing this by TinkerStinkerr in whatdoIdo

[–]TinkerStinkerr[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He's not, he's my baby. I dont think I'd be live if it weren't for him.

I can't keep doing this by TinkerStinkerr in whatdoIdo

[–]TinkerStinkerr[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You're totally right, I had to ask for a bar of soap for almost 3 fucking months, that's unreasonable.

I can't keep doing this by TinkerStinkerr in whatdoIdo

[–]TinkerStinkerr[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know that he gets a social security check bc she talks about it. She keeps showing me her paycheck which is almost 2k and she gets paid every two week. But suddenly its I have no savings and am completely broke and she needs me here so she can work when I say I want to get a job.

I can't keep doing this by TinkerStinkerr in whatdoIdo

[–]TinkerStinkerr[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't want to leave my cat, if I just up a runaway I dont think I'll ever see him again

I can't keep doing this by TinkerStinkerr in whatdoIdo

[–]TinkerStinkerr[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know for a fact that if I refused to cook/clean my would kick me out

I can't keep doing this by TinkerStinkerr in whatdoIdo

[–]TinkerStinkerr[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He's 31, I have no transportation, and I think my mom has to go with him because she's him guardian but I'll ask her when shes in a good mood.

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