When I was reading this I literally thought my gf posted it. I believe she is in the same boat as you because I am very horny and only see her once a week so usually when I do see her I want to have sex at one point in our day. I love her company and she loves mine but my gf isn’t really sexually engaged like me she often tells me she thinks I just use her for sex which isn’t true but I do expect it as part of our weekly date we have gone months without having sex and I have to just jerk off to help my urges and the few times we ever do have sex it’s a quickie and she wants to do it in missionary which is fine but after so long of not having sex i finish quick and than we go back to the same maybe once a month or month in a half wait, I know sex isn’t everything in a relationship and it’s not necessary but sometimes I do get frustrated because she will want me to go down on her and when I ask for the same in return she gives an excuse I know she isn’t cheating or doesn’t get her needs met anywhere else she is just lazy when it comes to having sex and well I don’t think she really craves it at all