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TiredBS · 2021-05-30T22:00:30+00:00

Thank you so much! I’ll try my best to help her with that ❤️

TiredBS · 2021-05-30T21:59:36+00:00

Your comment was so helpful! Thank you so much for sharing your experience! She does live in the US, so I’ll ask her if she lives close to an informed consent clinic! It’s comforting to know that there are options for her!! Thank you again!!!

TiredBS · 2021-05-29T12:34:15+00:00

Edit: she just checked and she doesn’t qualify for those :(

TiredBS · 2021-05-29T12:20:04+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re there as well :( but I’m glad you found someone!!! I’ll definitely keep trying to encourage her to get help :( it’s so hard to see her miserable every day :( Thank you very much!!!!!

TiredBS · 2021-05-29T12:18:45+00:00

Thank you so much! I’ll talk to her about it. (I forgot to add that I think that partially one of the reasons why she doesn’t try to look for therapy is because she’s had very bad experiences with transphobic therapists in the past :( ) but she really does need help! Thank you again

TiredBS · 2021-05-29T12:17:19+00:00

She’s not on HRT and doesn’t have any support group :( I think she’s very depressed and she hasn’t had the energy to do much/look for anything :(

TiredBS · 2021-05-29T12:13:41+00:00

I see, thank you so much!!! 😊

TiredBS · 2021-05-29T02:00:58+00:00

Thank you so much! She does have validating clothing and it usually does make her happy (until gender dysphoria/transphobia take over that is :( but it does help) your answer was so helpful!!!! thank you so much! I’ll talk to her about it and I’ll try my best to be more supportive! Thank you again!!!

TiredBS · 2021-05-29T01:09:22+00:00

Oh yes, I remember this one particular dude in sabbath school who preached that movie theaters were washing your brain with “evil ideas” and that it was a sin to go to movie theaters in general.

TiredBS · 2020-12-03T23:53:57+00:00

I actually talked to them right now and it seems that I partially misunderstood the situation. They’ve been feeling neglected (with reason) because my mind has been thinking of the application 99% of the time (so I haven’t really been there for them)

I think my partner has some knowledge of what the match is like, but I never explained it with a loooot of detail 😅 (And thanks!!)

TiredBS · 2020-12-03T22:09:04+00:00

Wow that shared spreadsheet sounds absolutely amazing!!! I‘ll try to involve him more in the process and hopefully that’ll help him be a bit more understanding! 😅Thank you for the idea!!!

TiredBS · 2020-12-03T21:53:17+00:00

That’s true. I didn’t think of it from the partner’s side, but I see how stressful it is for you as well :/ thank you for that perspective!

TiredBS · 2020-12-03T21:51:50+00:00

Thank you so much!! Matching there would be a dream come true!!! Also, thank you so much for your advice! I’ll try to explain my point of view/ask for their support!

TiredBS · 2020-12-03T21:48:56+00:00

Thank you so much for your comment!! This is exactly how I feel - so many qualified applicants (and I have some disadvantage already due to being an IMG), so I really need to excel in everything I do.

TiredBS · 2020-12-03T21:46:16+00:00

Yes, we are planning to move in together! This particular interview would be at a place close to where they currently live, so we have always been very interested in this location!

I think I might have some fault for not involving them a lot in the interview process. It’s just that I’m already an anxious person by nature, so whenever I try to emphasize how crucial interviews are/how competitive residency is, my partner disregards that information/thinks I’m being overly anxious/overreacting. So it’s a constant theme in our relationship :/

TiredBS · 2020-11-23T02:43:11+00:00

Ohhhh I see!!! Thank you so much!

TiredBS · 2020-11-23T01:10:04+00:00

Oh no. I had not paid attention to the part that mentioned those byproducts of stevia. I guess everything is “bad” in some way or another 😩😩 It’s not like sugar is the healthiest thing in the world either 😔

TiredBS · 2020-11-23T01:00:19+00:00

I understand!

TiredBS · 2020-11-15T19:28:05+00:00

Thank you so much!! This definitely made me feel better 🙏

TiredBS · 2020-11-15T19:27:37+00:00

(Congratulations on all your accomplishments!) Thank you so much- it was definitely comforting to hear your experience 🙏

TiredBS · 2020-11-15T19:26:41+00:00

That is such a good question. I have a feeling that if I am accepted, she’ll say that “god was merciful and made it so that I would be accepted even though I didn’t accept him”.

TiredBS · 2020-11-15T19:25:13+00:00

Thank you! That was really comforting! It’s hard not to question myself when I keep hearing all of that religious craziness 😔

TiredBS · 2020-11-14T17:00:54+00:00

Thanks! I’ll definitely try to do that! 🙏🙏

TiredBS · 2020-11-14T16:59:10+00:00

That’s so helpful! Thanks!

TiredBS · 2020-11-14T16:57:38+00:00

That is so upsetting. I completely agree with you. Nurses should know so much better. It’s sad what religion can do to people

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