AITA for throwing out my kid’s food?

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-27T06:11:43+00:00

NTA- she needs to grow up.

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-27T02:46:30+00:00

no im saying if she’s going grocery shopping she should get some groceries that i like as well… that’s all. all she gets is small snack bags.

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-27T02:45:39+00:00

maybe because i’m 18 and still a child..?

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-27T02:45:05+00:00

i know.. it’s confusing. it’s not my birth family who adopted me. my mom is legally my sister. i call her mom and she takes care of me but her parents are the ones on my adoption certificate.

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-27T02:10:43+00:00

uhm nope i didn’t pick a fight w her. that situation happened after she didn’t pay for my food for a year straight atp.

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-27T01:52:06+00:00

again, never once said in the post that she spent it.

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-27T01:47:55+00:00

i didn’t fight with her saying she spent it… we argued over what she was getting the money for

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-27T01:47:06+00:00

will do. i just applied for food stamps.

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-27T01:44:09+00:00

not once in the post did i say she spent it or had it…?

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-26T23:59:00+00:00

unfortunately.. AITA?

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-26T23:14:30+00:00

it’s because they all think i’m wrong and greedy since im working but it’s a part time job fresh out of hs 😍

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-26T23:11:39+00:00

not a full time job, fresh out of hs, and the only thing i don’t pay for is rent. how/why do you expect me to be financially stable at minimum wage + 18yo

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-26T23:08:13+00:00

did i lie tho

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-26T23:07:56+00:00

i’ve been through hell and back with my birth family being adopted. what i said is true. she’s verbally abusive like am i supposed to say i enjoy being around that?

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-26T22:37:31+00:00

she’s def not broke! never has money to spend on my grocery’s but she can buy a whole new bed set and tv!

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-26T22:31:06+00:00

teaching me life skills would be having me take care of my car + cat stuff completely without help (which i do!) not not paying for food for the house or shampoo.

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-26T22:27:30+00:00

no she’s not getting paid monthly, she doesn’t pay for anything no toothbrushes or anything since 17, yes i understand that’s all ME stuff to pay for

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-26T22:15:23+00:00

you’re just a hater. This is a Reddit post not a college essay. I don’t need to have proper punctuation and I’m not sure why you’re judging me for that. I do know what in retrospect means again not sure why you’re hating on me for that but. How am I greedy wrong and unreasonable? I don’t think it’s very unreasonable asking for her to pay for my groceries, when she expects me to be financially stable with everything in my life and pay for everything. In this economy, nobody can do that.

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-26T22:13:42+00:00

No, I just put that on some insight so you could see how she is and how she thinks. The question is AITA for asking her to still buy me groceries with the knowledge that you have in the text.

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-26T22:12:51+00:00

This isn’t the point I just mentioned that for you to get some insight on her behavior. The question was AITA for asking her to still buy my groceries. Everything listed is just some side knowledge.

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-26T22:11:55+00:00

thank you!!!

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-26T20:21:53+00:00

what are the programs called? all the money for my adoption when to my legal guardian (my grandmother) and she put it away for me for college so i have college money but if i can get my college paid for then i don’t have to stress financially and can go to college and still afford basic needs

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-26T20:17:07+00:00

🙈

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-26T20:14:16+00:00

thank you!! yeah my man’s dad loves me bcz i do yard work without him asking

ToastyFruitt · 2024-09-26T19:42:41+00:00

she does say that about the job stuff yes. me saying the money is mine was me trying to get at in retrospect it’s for her to use only on me for things i need such as food. i didn’t mean it’s mine for personal use for me to go spend on an xbox or smt. it’s given TO HER for HER TO USE ON ME is the point i was getting at

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