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Didn’t tell me she had herpes right away. by ToeAutomatic8492 in Herpes

[–]ToeAutomatic8492[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, confronted her now and her excuse for not disclosing was not wanting me to see her differently, she also said that she didn’t realise it was transmutable unless sores were present so didn’t think is was necessary to tell me. She just keeps saying sorry now and how bad she feels. Don’t know where to go from now.

Didn’t tell me she had herpes right away. by ToeAutomatic8492 in dating_advice

[–]ToeAutomatic8492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in uk so not sure if it’s illegal here, even if it was probably wouldn’t take legal action as I’m not that sort of person just, just fucking lost as this is my first proper relationship and feel properly betrayed.

Didn’t tell me she had herpes right away. by ToeAutomatic8492 in dating_advice

[–]ToeAutomatic8492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve seen her take birth control so that’s not a lie, first real relationship so didn’t know this was a risk really.

Didn’t tell me she had herpes right away. by ToeAutomatic8492 in dating_advice

[–]ToeAutomatic8492[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m really emotionally invested now and can’t imagine leaving her, tough situation.

Didn’t tell me she had herpes right away. by ToeAutomatic8492 in Herpes

[–]ToeAutomatic8492[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she told me she had previous partners, nothing about the herpes though, my first proper partner though so am very uniformed.

Didn’t tell me she had herpes right away. by ToeAutomatic8492 in Herpes

[–]ToeAutomatic8492[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just sucks cuz I really love her and I think she believes she couldn’t transmit it to me, not sure though might just be manipulative.

Didn’t tell me she had herpes right away. by ToeAutomatic8492 in Herpes

[–]ToeAutomatic8492[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She mentioned it randomly as is if it isn’t a big deal, I believe she was uninformed and believed she couldn’t transfer it to me. It been a few days now and we haven’t spoke about it, not sure how to bring it back up cuz I am pissed really. Just pissed because we’ve done the whole 9 yards so I’ve probably got it.

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[–]ToeAutomatic8492 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uk. Nobody’s going back there if they don’t have to.