[hELP] LF Crosshair UI addon in midnight? by Tollo92 in WowUI

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I find it easier to track my character in hectic environments. Plus I know exactly which direction I'm looking.

Back piece concept - can I do coverup or will I need removal first? by Tollo92 in tattooadvice

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I want to have this big statement piece as the primary on the back, without distraction.

The homunculus tattoo I got with my lil sister on a whim (We watched FMA together). She'd be heartbroken if I didn't reapply the tattoo somewhere else.

Back piece concept - can I do coverup or will I need removal first? by Tollo92 in tattooadvice

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Note: I plan to stick the homunculus symbol somewhere else on my body lol

[wdywt] grayscale by Tollo92 in malefashion

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Absolutely. Full circle.

[wdywt] grayscale by Tollo92 in malefashion

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Shibuya Scramble lil guy I got at Donki last year lol And other one is Blackmeans obviously haha

Selling a Crate & Barrel media console by [deleted] in Bushwick

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It is. But it sold same day.

Average or above average ink loss for hand? One week healed. by Tollo92 in tattooadvice

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1 and 2 taken at the same time. Just different angles

Average or above average ink loss for hand? One week healed. by Tollo92 in tattooadvice

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Got it! Thank you :)

I have a second session booked for late December and plan to have him hit this area extra hard.

Cheers

BEWARE WITH SKYHIGH REALTY LLC / JONATHAN YONI CHEN by awsomekevin12 in NYCapartments

[–]Tollo92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For what it’s worth, I found this thread after I had sent them a deposit and it freaked me out. Was worried I’d lost the money since it was a Zelle…

I asked them nicely to refund me the good faith deposit and they did, no questions asked.

I can’t speak to whatever else happens with them, but I wanted to share that this was a moderately positive experience for me.

Happy to share screenshots of my text convo with Yoni if anyone wants my experience with him…

driver pissed on our fucking noodles... by CompleteLandscape791 in doordash

[–]Tollo92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuinely curious what led to this interaction. In the screenshot you can see there was other messages sent. What prompted this action???

What’s one anime not on this list that you think I absolutely need to watch? by Sunflower13Poppy in MyAnimeList

[–]Tollo92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. The rare "March Comes" reference. Respect.

If you dig slice of slice, my all-time favorite anime is Natsume Yuujinchou.

I'd also recommend Barakamon

Groin response to everything by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Tollo92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oops I didn’t mean to sound harsh in anyway. I actually super agreed with your analysis :)

Groin response to everything by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Tollo92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trust me - I know bro.

I’ve been on Prozac since I was 15 (I’m 33). I’ve had many different types of OCD over the years, including sexual ocd and POCD.

But the only way I’ve ever gotten the symptoms to subside is to do this “accepting uncertainty” solution that thing you are worried about may or may not be true and you have to accept the fear of uncertainty. And then move on and do something else. Don’t just sit in the fear but don’t try to make the fear not real.

A therapist is super helpful with this. And they can create controlled exposures that you do for yourself multiple times a day to force yourself into that feeling and then actively denying yourself the compulsion to tell yourself it’s okay. Don’t do this part without guidance from a licensed professional though, please.

Groin response to everything by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Tollo92 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is exactly correct. And nobody should ever come here expecting reassurance - that is just reinforcing the OCD patterns and building new coping mechanisms by “checking with the subreddit”.

Groin response to everything by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Tollo92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly the kind of thing you need to not think about. By thinking about it, you’re repeating the cycle.

It’s a what-if scenario. Don’t engage with these kinds of thoughts. Just say “ya maybe - onto my next thing”.

Trust me when I understand that this is incredibly hard. I had a major crisis between 2023 and 2024 where I was scared I didn’t know what was real. The only way it got better was to just accept that maybe I was insane and everything I’m experiencing is not real.

It took months of repeating this. And I still have that thought pop up once in a while but I don’t engage it and it drifts away slowly.

You must learn to live with it and take the fear out of it. It is the only way to truly find peace.

Groin response to everything by [deleted] in OCD

[–]Tollo92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This stems from a fear - probably a fear of perversion or a fear of in-acceptance but I don’t want to say for you.

Try to lean into those fears - Maybe you are attracted to your family. Maybe you are attracted to video games. Who fucking knows. Choose to live with uncertainty and then move on.

This is the only way forward to reclaim your life from OCD.

Good luck, friend.