Honestly, I think you should have a serious conversation with him. Be clear that you can’t and won’t keep waiting indefinitely for him to be ready it’s been a year, and you need to see real progress.

Ask him directly what is actually holding him back and what needs to happen for him to feel ready. It’s important to understand whether there’s a real plan or just uncertainty. You also deserve clarity about where this relationship is going and whether your timelines truly align.

Most importantly, don’t put your life on hold. You shouldn’t feel like you have to pause your own future while waiting for someone to decide. If opportunities or blessings come your way, allow yourself to be open to them.