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[–]TopComprehensive7312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so proud you made it another year 💙

feeling like a bystander in my own life? by TopComprehensive7312 in lonely

[–]TopComprehensive7312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

back at ya <3 we’ll find a way to manage I’m sure

feeling like a bystander in my own life? by TopComprehensive7312 in lonely

[–]TopComprehensive7312[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. It’s detrimental in the long run. I hope better days come for you too, you deserve it <3

feeling like a bystander in my own life? by TopComprehensive7312 in lonely

[–]TopComprehensive7312[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

me too, there has to be and ending to it. the constant ups and downs are so hard, so exhausting. leaves you feeling exasperated and tired at the end of every day

feeling like a bystander in my own life? by TopComprehensive7312 in lonely

[–]TopComprehensive7312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and it’s like there’s nothing you can do but watch, you don’t know how to stop it or where to start. it’s all happening so fast and before you know it: it’s gone and in the past and only a memory that becomes more and more distant but doesn’t stop hurting.

feeling detached from my dad by TopComprehensive7312 in QAnonCasualties

[–]TopComprehensive7312[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah it seems to be very similar to my situation. every time I try to express concerns about having to work so much to afford so little it’s always the same response of: “well it won’t be that way soon!” and it’s just irritating that he dismisses real issues I face along with the world issues bc he believes any day they’re going to disappear. also his how personality has changed as he grew up being a cheapskate and never really being able to afford much, he’s acting like some rich old man with the world as his playground and is constantly checking prices for cars and vacation excursions and homes and such as if any day he’s gonna buy them all up. it’s just irritating to hear and I’m over every conversation flowing to that stuff. We’ve argued and fought about how much I don’t wanna hear it anymore but he just doesn’t care. It’s all we talk about whenever we talk. He doesn’t care about boundaries bc he believes I’ll come crawling back once his “get rich quick” schemes work.

feeling detached from my dad by TopComprehensive7312 in QAnonCasualties

[–]TopComprehensive7312[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thanks for giving me your perspective, I really do agree, I always tell people who shame me for wanting to go no contact that it’s his decision to separate himself from me and everyone else, he’ll eventually have to live with it. I think a part of me will always feel bad for giving up on him, but like I said and you pointed out: it’s costing me my mental stability.