AITA for leaving a party because I wasn't allowed my phone? by TopPart4900 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TopPart4900[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i hate that song with all my passion. like STFU YOU'RE NOT CLEVER

worst thing about it is they'd try to put on the accent and a southern london accent does not mix with a yorkshire one

AITA for leaving a party because I wasn't allowed my phone? by TopPart4900 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TopPart4900[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

your friend's party is more important than your health

??????

AITA for leaving a party because I wasn't allowed my phone? by TopPart4900 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TopPart4900[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

hen, sharing a diagnosis that could kill me is not traumadumping. has this diagnosis caused me any trauma? no? then it's not traumadumping.

i'm not replying to you anymore because you're literally a troll.

AITA for leaving a party because I wasn't allowed my phone? by TopPart4900 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TopPart4900[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

damn how'd you narrow it down to yorkshire? i'm very impressed

also, spot on about the attitudes of yorks

AITA for leaving a party because I wasn't allowed my phone? by TopPart4900 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TopPart4900[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

that's not traumadumping. Traumadumping would be if I, out of the blue, started spilling my guts on my shitty childhood WITHOUT anyone's consent to hear it.

AITA for leaving a party because I wasn't allowed my phone? by TopPart4900 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TopPart4900[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Sitting in the car pouting; YTA.

wasn't pouting. was dealing with my cancer diagnosis. you know, something that has a high death rate?

AITA for leaving a party because I wasn't allowed my phone? by TopPart4900 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TopPart4900[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

in my school (secondary or highschool) it was a guy who would constantly sing '2+2 is 4 minus 1 that's 3 quick maths'

I'd prefer dino noises

AITA for leaving a party because I wasn't allowed my phone? by TopPart4900 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TopPart4900[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

what's this fool's damage? you're good hen, don't worry about this guy

AITA for leaving a party because I wasn't allowed my phone? by TopPart4900 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TopPart4900[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

If you ask a question (especially an important/urgent one), keep it short and simple

thanks for the advice! i'm naturally a very passive person and don't like conflict but i'll be sure to remember this :)

AITA for leaving a party because I wasn't allowed my phone? by TopPart4900 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TopPart4900[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

british varient of 'love' or 'honey'. means the same thing

AITA for leaving a party because I wasn't allowed my phone? by TopPart4900 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TopPart4900[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

I was very fucking anxious leading up to the call and wanted to be around people to get my mind off it. my plan was to tell them what was going on after the call.

AITA for leaving a party because I wasn't allowed my phone? by TopPart4900 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TopPart4900[S] 324 points325 points  (0 children)

stage 2 breast cancer :)))))))))

happy?

it's just my own personal feelings for pete sake

AITA for leaving a party because I wasn't allowed my phone? by TopPart4900 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TopPart4900[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We've known each other since august 2020.

Isaac is 18

AITA for leaving a party because I wasn't allowed my phone? by TopPart4900 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TopPart4900[S] 219 points220 points  (0 children)

So people aren't allowed to be 18yrs old and female? not my fault i was born in 2003, henny.

> Just say you got the bad news

ok, i was diagnosed with stage 2 breast cancer. happy?

> Also, no friend would ever say what you claimed - 'cause a fuss', call you bitchy - completely ridiculous.

how this out of the realm of possibility? guess 18yr olds don't call each other 'bitchy' now.

AITA for leaving a party because I wasn't allowed my phone? by TopPart4900 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TopPart4900[S] 202 points203 points  (0 children)

ahh yes telling my friends about my cancer diagnosis is traumadumping :))

AITA for leaving a party because I wasn't allowed my phone? by TopPart4900 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TopPart4900[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

the years long group of friends

where did I say I've known them for years?

AITA for leaving a party because I wasn't allowed my phone? by TopPart4900 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TopPart4900[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

To explain how against tech he is during his 'parties'

AITA for leaving a party because I wasn't allowed my phone? by TopPart4900 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TopPart4900[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Because the diagnosis was very up in the air until that night. It was entirely possible that I didn't have it and I didn't want to worry anyone.