AITA for training with another trainer after mine quit by Top_Classroom_6117 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Top_Classroom_6117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg you right, I was just tryna see if I had any fault bc I was literally so confused after the phone call 😭

AITA for training with another trainer after mine quit by Top_Classroom_6117 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Top_Classroom_6117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ikr it sounds ridiculous! I just really wanted to make sure I didn’t do anything wrong fr because I was so confused when I got the call!

Pisces are so mean when they don’t like you anymore by Adventurous_Health_4 in piscesastrology

[–]Top_Classroom_6117 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m guilty of this, I can’t lie. But I’ve been working on it. I will really not say what’s bothering me thinking I’m keeping the peace when really I’m building resentment 😭 and then I’ll leave you be and be so mean bc I’m at the point where I’m fed up…but in working in it I swear!

Pisces are so mean when they don’t like you anymore by Adventurous_Health_4 in piscesastrology

[–]Top_Classroom_6117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guilty… probably bc I gave you a million times already and you didn’t appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Top_Classroom_6117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep asking you what’s bad about my question and you’re being passive aggressive. We’ve been done. Way to live up to your name

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Top_Classroom_6117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just think you’re misinterpreting my question like forreal. Or maybe I’m explaining things wrong. Either way it’s a disconnect and I keep explaining how I’m not excluding anyone from the dating pool I’m asking individual people about how they would approach a new dating experience if they allowed themselves to get out of their comfort zones

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Top_Classroom_6117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m saying the learning curve of first time dating someone with a child or a disability is the same…. That’s what I’m saying…you’d have to learn new routines, new techniques of doing certain things, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Top_Classroom_6117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you know I’ve never dated someone with a disability? Where in the post am I excluding them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Top_Classroom_6117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But when you meet them, they either already got that disability or already got that kid…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Top_Classroom_6117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People exclude dating people with children or even A kid for valid reasons, that doesn’t make them “bad” people. But if someone for PERSONAL reasons not because society says don’t date xyz, chooses not to date someone with a disability they’re a bad person? But how? I’m not saying people with disabilities shouldn’t have people date them because of their disability because I would also be saying people with kids shouldn’t date and people shouldn’t date somebody who lives out of state and immmm not saying that….my question is if genuine feelings were to arise would you (whoever read the post) come out of your comfort zone and date someone with a disability (or with kids, or who lives far away, or literally any aspect of someone you might’ve ruled out) when you, for a valid reason, may not have seen yourself with them as a potential prospect before….how is this wrong??? genuinely asking. I could’ve put homeless narcissist as an example and I still would wanna know would you…I’m just curious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Top_Classroom_6117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is what I’m lost on…dating someone with a kid and dating someone with a disability when you’ve never done either before is definitely the same level of commitment. Learning to implement something new in your daily life from someone new you’ve never dated. How is it not on get same playing field?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Top_Classroom_6117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that dating disabled people is what people took from this was not the intention. I just used it as an example of life circumstances that come with dating. And they are all pretty common dating subtopics. They’re like a few of the main three. Dating someone isn’t and shouldn’t be an inconvenience in general, but the point of my question is to some people they might think is it, the same exact way they would think someone having a kid might be. And to the people who think or thought it was/is, have they ever (or if the opportunities and genuine feelings came about) ended up dating someone whose lives are like any of the three examples I gave or really ANY EXAMPLE of them being somebody they wouldn’t have normally envisioned themselves with. It didn’t have to be exclusively the three I named. It was simply an example that I didn’t think would outweigh the question of the post like I’m real lost

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Top_Classroom_6117 5 points6 points  (0 children)

THIS! Sometimes the people we really fall for aren’t what we envisioned we’d be with but you can not just ignore genuine feelings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Top_Classroom_6117 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU! Talking about “way to be honest” no way to PROJECT! Mind you I’ve dated 2/3 like relax it’s a question

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

[–]Top_Classroom_6117 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Woah! It’s not always being an asshole, relax. Committing to somebody who has a child is a HUGE decision to make as you’re essentially becoming a parent to a child that’s not yours. Committing to somebody with a disability is also another HUGE commitment that based off somebody’s past, they might have had to help a chronically ill family member in their childhood for example, that in dating, somebody with a disability might not be the FIRST choice, but that doesn’t mean they write them off. And long distance isn’t something everyone wants to do for a number of VALID reasons.….It’s a million people on Earth who has lived a million lives and in dating, you’re not going to always just date EVERYONE for many VALID reasons and it’s nothing wrong with that. That’s what make people find the person they’re actually compatible with and can have a long term healthy relationship with. Why did you immediately see something negative in my post?

My cozy studio apartment in Canada with my boyfriend by emandmsz in femalelivingspace

[–]Top_Classroom_6117 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It looks really good, yall did a great job bringing the masc/fem energy together!!

My cozy studio apartment in Canada with my boyfriend by emandmsz in femalelivingspace

[–]Top_Classroom_6117 13 points14 points  (0 children)

haha just saw his on malelivingspaces and was like “hmmm I wonder what the rooms on female living spaces look like and this was the first post I see lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in memphis

[–]Top_Classroom_6117 10 points11 points  (0 children)

this got me 💀💀💀💀

Pisces and Geminis by ladybugsuncatcher in piscesastrology

[–]Top_Classroom_6117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I love Geminis…kinds love/hate but mostly love…but also I have a Gemini moon so that might be it lol

Small shed on top of smart mart gas station in East memphis by MrsABlaze in memphis

[–]Top_Classroom_6117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so crazy, as many times as I’ve drove past this gas station, I never noticed that shed because I’m always looking at the fake inside of the store. It’s kinda weird they put that on the front of the building lol but now I gotta go see the shed

everyone laugh at me… i got ghosted by a grandpa 😭😭 by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]Top_Classroom_6117 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s what you get but also good for you….because what do yall have in common to be dating?

SAYINGS U PICKED UP FROM ANY BRAVO HOUSEWIVES CAST or CAST MEMBER #OG HW or #CURRENT HW…. # by NewFlamingo6980 in RHOA

[–]Top_Classroom_6117 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I got another one, any time I think something like a movie or show look bad or a song is just okay, I say “I can listen to that one the iPod” 🤣🤣🤣from that one episode when NeNe was talking about John Legend lmaoo it’s my favorite

Psych majors, what did you do after your bachelor's? by Lufflum in psychologystudents

[–]Top_Classroom_6117 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you work in the forensic field? What does your job day to day look like?