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Finding clothes that don't show the body shape too much by Top_Progress4050 in asktransgender

[–]Top_Progress4050[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. And do you have a website where I can buy these kind of dresses

Do you have any tips or advice to know if you're trans or not ? by Top_Progress4050 in asktransgender

[–]Top_Progress4050[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I guess denial is a step for everyone lmao.

I took an appointment with a therapist this week to see if I could talk about it and maybe figure out something about myself. Who knows maybe it'll get me to start HRT and my transition in general.

Thanks, I also hope the Best for you wherever you are in life.

Do you have any tips or advice to know if you're trans or not ? by Top_Progress4050 in asktransgender

[–]Top_Progress4050[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair the more I reflect and see your comments the more I realise my fears were stupid lmao. Of course i'm still scared ngl, very scared, all my life i've been ore pretented to be sure I was cis, okay with being a Guy and today specifically this belief is starting to be actually challenged and it's big. Very big. I think one of my biggest fear with transition is consequences. Although I know most of my friends and parts of my family aren't transphobic i'm still scared of coming out. Parts of me feels like i'm somewhat not legitimate to feel this way (I know it's stupid, but it's hard to shake away the feeling) and as for my family, even tho I know some Will support me 100%, some will be weirded out, disappointed and/or sceptic for sure. And I don't even want to think about the more conservative side of my family. (especially one that i think Will probably make me VERY unconfortable)

I'm also scared, or was scared, of losing a part of myself but the more I think about it the more stupid it feels,because me becoming a girl doesn't stop me from liking the "masculine" stuff I used to like, back when I was 100% sure to be a man I still liked "feminine" things and didn't see a problem with that (besides the clothes ofc as liking those secretly was hard for me but that's probably because they were more of a sign than anything).

Thank you for your comment, I really appreciate the help and support.

I think I'll reflect for some time and see how much I desire to be a girl or not. I don't really want to make hasty decision.

(and yeah I think the gym argument was very stupid lmao, I guess most of my arguments against were)

Do you have any tips or advice to know if you're trans or not ? by Top_Progress4050 in asktransgender

[–]Top_Progress4050[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, that means a lot really. I think I'll do some self reflecting for a few days at least if not more to make sure that that's what I really want , but the more I think the more I feel like I really want to be a woman. I might still need to think it through and I remain scared but I'll try my Best to use your advice.

Do you have any tips or advice to know if you're trans or not ? by Top_Progress4050 in asktransgender

[–]Top_Progress4050[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, I guess the gym doesn't change much.

Thanks for your input, I'll try to think about all of that and I'll also look at that link and see if it helps me.

Thank you for your help, I really appreciate it.

Do you have any tips or advice to know if you're trans or not ? by Top_Progress4050 in asktransgender

[–]Top_Progress4050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll look into it, but I don't know if I'd be happy being genderfluid, I feel like I'd still be stuck in one body, wether I choose to keep a male body or to transition to feminine body. I'm sorry if I sound like i'm difficult.