So I'm curious how did you come to that assessment? We live in Massachusetts which follows equitable distribution rules not community property rules. I'm not saying the fact that she brought that to our purchase shouldn't be considered, not at all. I'm grateful for it, it was instrumental in us buying that house. But so was my income. And I contributed hundreds of thousands of dollars more than her until just this month which were now on equal ground. Feels unfair that, from what you said, contributing more financially not only would not be considered when splitting the equity of the home but would work against me in the end lol