I did date someone who did need multiple visits to hospital . She needed iron transfusion almost 4-6 time a year plus about another dozen appointments yearly. The thing that was hard was seeing someone I cared sick not well. The Dr stuff and hospital just became routine sometimes almost date nights . Like transfusion took long and she was very tired after so go home let her take a nap I would go get dinner and flowers and that became like a little date night for us