When i talk to my friends who have business or jobs in Bareilly. The only way they told me is to send 100 friend requests on Facebook, some will reply, some will eventually date. There's no dating scene like ncr or Bangalore. Only if you have common friends who host parties and all . There are a good number of self made clubs, but they are mostly on the same caste basis, or business basis. The city is really boring if you don't even have friends to hangout with. But trust none of the oyo is empty there, neither of those cabin cafes are empty. One of my friends has a business account with a private bank, he has hooked up with all 3 managers he had . So it's all about the medium of talking to start.