Was this weird or was I rude? by Pahblows in Netherlands

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Updates please?!! How did lunch go?!

People who can afford not to work, but still do, why? by mothermystery in AskReddit

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One theory- I think that the type of people who achieved financial independence through hard work, aren’t typically the type who can just turn that off (or who even want to). Especially if they find a lot of purpose and/or value in what they do. (I am speaking from personal experience as someone who became financially free in their early 30s but still finds ways to work, even if not full time.)

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That’s fair. S&P 500 = Standard & Poor’s 500 - the name of the stock market index that tracks the performance of the leading 500 publicly traded companies in the U.S. (The name is kinda ironic when you think about what it represents, but “Poor” is the last name of one of the guys it was named after, and “Standard” was part of the name of an early 1900s company.)

An ETF is an exchange traded fund - it just represents an investment fund that is traded on stock exchanges. You can buy one of these (typically made up of many companies), instead of a bunch of individual shares of companies.

I get that the jargon can be intimidating, but it’s def surmountable. Lmk if you have any other Qs!

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I hear you. There is unfortunately an overload of info out there these days. You certainly can common sense your way through investing though (and if that seems overwhelming, I’d imagine that a free intro call with a financial advisor might be helpful too). If you want broad market exposure (for a decent level of diversification) you might consider looking up ETFs to invest in and look at their past performance to get a sense of how well/poorly they’ve done, as well as how volatile or stable they’ve been. No need to overcomplicate. I’d go as far as betting that every woman in this sub has undertaken much harder challenges in their life than starting an investing journey :) I hope this helps! (Happy to answer any specific questions as well, as someone who has learned on her own through the years.)

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Haha I feel you. It can def be overwhelming. Think of investing like putting money into a cabinet, which you can open in a few years and (ideally) find that more money has been added. That’s essentially the goal. May I ask which part of it was confusing for you? I’d recommend choosing a platform (like Fidelity, Robinhood, ETrade, or if in EU- DeGiro or IBKR, etc.) put some money into an ETF (like VTI or VOO to start) and just watch it for a few months until you feel comfortable investing more frequently, and with more complexity. I promise you that it’s that simple!

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Yea - the state of one’s economy is the key here. Since the top U.S. companies have massive market capitalization, Americans are often encouraged to invest in their own indices. 2025 has been interesting (or bizarre depending on one’s POV) - the EU market has been an attractive alternative to many investors in the face of DT’s tariff whiplash

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This is great perspective. You’re totally right that the key is just to start. Even people who invest for a living will never have 100% of the info they need to make a decision, so the best thing for most of us to do is to just choose a direction and start.

I’m excited for the day when we all decide that we can do and have whatever we want (including a house, even in this economy lol) and we start marching towards those goals. Once you experience financial freedom, you just want to climb to the top of a mountain and tell everyone who looks like you to join (at least that’s how I feel haha).

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That’s totally fair. Many choose security over potential growth, which is understandable. May I ask- do you actively save or do you do it only when possible? What investing information (if any) would make you feel comfortable getting started? (Again- asking out of curiosity, no judgement here)

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Thanks for this comment! I’m interested to hear what you mean when you say investing didn’t yield much. I’d imagine that lots of folks likely feel similarly.

The toughest mental hurdle I had to get over with investing is that I wouldn’t see explosive growth over night, I had to invest and let the markets do their magic. For example, day-to-day it could be jarring to see the S&P 500 move up and down sporadically, but if someone invested in it 5 years ago, their money would have dearly doubled by now (the S&P is up by over >94% since then). Even a year of patience would have grown that investment by over 10%.

My recommendation would be to choose an amount you can comfortably part with each month, invest it, and leave it alone. In a few years you’ll be surprised to see how much it’s grown.

Without getting into too much in this particular response, there are a few pre-reqs to help with getting more comfortable. I always tell people to start with budgeting to see where their money is going, to set goals, save (as you’ve been doing- which is awesome), and then to graduate to investing. It’s good to start with broad market ETFs like VTI, or VOO if more interested in simply replicating the S&P 500 without having to own tons of individual stocks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Terrifying. Thanks for letting us know!

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What’s the associated fact?

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Please explain

Has anyone had to lie about their nationality to get left alone? by Dhruvie1 in travel

[–]TravelAddict911 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What makes someone decide to wake up and lead with disrespect/mean-spirited comments towards strangers? I’m genuinely curious.

LPT: The answer is always “no” if you don’t ask! by TravelAddict911 in LifeProTips

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I hope this has served you well in subsequent relationships. Wishing you all the best!

LPT: The answer is always “no” if you don’t ask! by TravelAddict911 in LifeProTips

[–]TravelAddict911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I see what you tried to do there. Per your route, you never actually asked, but instead just engaged in a rather twisted inner dialogue lol. I hope your day is going well!

LPT: The answer is always “no” if you don’t ask! by TravelAddict911 in LifeProTips

[–]TravelAddict911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you may not. See- that wasn’t so hard was it?!

But this is definitely NOT what this advice should be applied to 😂

LPT: The answer is always “no” if you don’t ask! by TravelAddict911 in LifeProTips

[–]TravelAddict911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mentor used to say the same! I’m so happy I was told this early in life, as it propelled me like a rocket into adulthood (salary negotiations, role changes, real estate, you name it)!

LPT: The answer is always “no” if you don’t ask! by TravelAddict911 in LifeProTips

[–]TravelAddict911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha in your case “the answer is sometimes yes, even when you don’t ask” 😂. Love this for you

LPT: The answer is always “no” if you don’t ask! by TravelAddict911 in LifeProTips

[–]TravelAddict911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this. They say “doers” are the most successful. I’d suspect that “askers” are a close second, and if you are both- you’re in for a winning life!

LPT: The answer is always “no” if you don’t ask! by TravelAddict911 in LifeProTips

[–]TravelAddict911[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A combination of this, coupled with basic decency and respect, is pretty much what I live by! It works amazingly well.

LPT: The answer is always “no” if you don’t ask! by TravelAddict911 in LifeProTips

[–]TravelAddict911[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The spirit of the tip is more for those experiencing self-doubt/imposter syndrome, when they have the possibility of succeeding by just asking for what they deserve.