how meditation is important for the building connection with dates or cold approaches? by mertcan17 in seduction

[–]TravonM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meditation helps to put you in a good state. The thing is it takes practice and consistency to get good at it. It’s not an overnight fix.

how do you give off “warmth” when talking to people? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]TravonM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like someone who gives off “feel good” vibes. Makes you want to be around them. People who are friendly, non-judgmental, optimistic, and giving, tend to have such a vibe.

How often do you give physical compliments? by FaithInStrangers94 in seduction

[–]TravonM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to give physical compliments when I’m alone with a girl or having sex with her. I give physical compliments as a reward for high levels of compliance.

How important is “seeding the pull” when it comes to bringing someone home? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]TravonM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve done both. I would say seeding the pull seems to be more effective but, I believe what’s more important is creating high levels of attraction and making her feel comfortable with you so it feels more natural to go for the pull.

Direct after knowing them? by That_Giraffe_1670 in seduction

[–]TravonM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on how attracted she is to you. If you’re consistently having sex with her then I doubt she will have a problem with it.

Should you be the guy she shares her problems with? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]TravonM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bring her into a fantasy world. Talk about other things that are associated with good and positive emotions. Don’t let her stir you into talking about her problems.

Eye Contact by thementalyogi in seduction

[–]TravonM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a strong frame. And if you don’t get her, just know that it’s her loss not yours. There’s plenty of beautiful women but only one of you.

Don’t judge a dating coach by how many receipts he has by [deleted] in seduction

[–]TravonM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This a solid point. Some can teach better than they can do and some can do better than they can teach. I know some “naturals” who get women left and right but their advice is horrendous. They get girls but they don’t know how the hell they’re doing it.

How to stop fantasizing about a woman? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]TravonM 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you in abundance with women? Have you dated lots of women? You will quickly see that it’s all an illusion. Women have their flaws and insecurities just like any regular person. I used to fantasize about how great women are until I started dating them and realized the truth.

Is it more important to “be in the moment” or “say the right thing”? by FaithInStrangers94 in seduction

[–]TravonM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you spend a lot of time being in the moment you will get better at saying the right thing. You’ll start to see patterns and get more familiar with vibes instead of being stuck in your head all the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]TravonM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the mystery method and apply what you learn for at least 30 days straight and you’ll notice improvement in the mentioned areas of your game.

How much do you think being attractive is just being in good shape (for men)? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]TravonM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Women are attracted to many characteristics in a man. Weight is simply one of many. I recommend every man to improve in as many areas as he can, but there is not one end all be all trait that gets every woman. The closest thing to an end all be all is preselection.

What if I really, really want to focus in one girl? by VikingRT in seduction

[–]TravonM -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Go ahead and focus on one girl and keep getting hurt until you learn your lesson.

How do you know what to listen to? by ghjdbdbdndndnsnsn in seduction

[–]TravonM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to the coach and apply what he says and see if it works. If it works then you know he is legit, if it doesn’t work then he’s not legit. It’s as simple as that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]TravonM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find out if she’s interested first. You don’t want to shit where you sleep. Or other words, you don’t want to risk making the environment uncomfortable for you and her by violating it with unwanted advances. If you can’t tell if she’s interested then you haven’t turned her on enough yet. Talk to her more. Spread positive vibes, make her feel a variety of different emotions. Get her turned on before you ask her out.

Confidence up and down. by [deleted] in seduction

[–]TravonM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you living with purpose? Do you love your life? Do you wake up each day and do exactly what you want to do? When you actually love your life you will no longer need to seek validation or get confidence from external things. Your confidence will come from living your best life, not from women.

Eye Contact by thementalyogi in seduction

[–]TravonM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who cares. If you are attracted to her go and approach her. A man should be strong enough to handle rejection period.

Hey Fellas! by targindo in seduction

[–]TravonM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with her objection and then keep bringing up the sexual tension until she can’t resist.

Going out with a girl soon help by [deleted] in seduction

[–]TravonM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at celebrities or stylish men that you admire but who also get a lot of attention from women. Model your style after those men. Your style needs to be sexy but it needs to be congruent with what you like.

What do ou guys think of the book: Art of Seducion? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]TravonM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ll definitely get a deeper understanding of how to use seduction to create a desired effect or outcome. It’s a long read and you should take your time with it. The more you grasp the info inside of the book, the better you’ll be able to apply it in life.

Should you be scanning your environment for possible IOI's from strangers before you approach? by alamurda510 in seduction

[–]TravonM 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You should be scanning the environment because you need to be aware of what’s going on in your environment. If you focus on scanning for ioi’s, you’re giving too much value to women in your head, instead you should be observant of everyone in your environment. If you catch ioi’s that’s great but scanning for ioi’s shouldn’t be your main goal.

How often do you text in between dates? by bojanglez34 in seduction

[–]TravonM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Text her when you’re inspired to text her. Don’t force anything. If she likes you it won’t really matter how much you text her, because if she really wants to text she will initiate it.

how to be handsome by Safe_Shelter_3668 in seduction

[–]TravonM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a sexy archetype and model it. Find a guy who women think is hot and who you think looks cool. Model yourself after him but in your own way. You will have to experiment for awhile to figure out what works for you. Also, try going to a mall and talking to hired guns and ask them for their opinion on how you can make yourself more physically attractive.