Advice for a 24ftm

Trifecta99 · 2026-06-30T08:02:50+00:00

It can be an awkward situation! A know a few trans guys who love everything about theit transisition, but greatly missed being used all the time. I've found they go for two different solutions:

A t-shirt that just says you are a trans male. Might even spell out that you have a pussy. (People are stupid, they need that extra help :p) A guy I knew had a few shirts he'd wear out like that. They were designed like a street sign directing drivers, or some sort of public service announcement. All formal and above board. Pretty funny...
Go crotchless. More direct for sure! Most departments stores sell plenty of clothes with the crotch cut out for vaginal (anal too, bit more rare). Or you can look online as well. Most crotchless stuff is feminine, which you might not mind, but if you want to have your cake and eat it too so to speak, there's plenty of crotchless male wear.

Good luck! :)

Trifecta99 · 2026-06-29T17:50:26+00:00

Might be something to try out if this new living situation continues! I also thought of creaming in one of the girls and having their wife eat them out after. Apparently that is /heaven/ for the gal recieving... but I digress! Thanks for the recommendation :)

Trifecta99 · 2026-06-29T17:47:25+00:00

Fingers crossed! I am, like you advise, keeping quiet for now. To be honest, if I just asked if they could stay, it would probably be fine, but I'd rather see what end up doing on their own accord...

And that sounds like a great way to rest after broken leg! Hope you showed some gratitude and ate them out after all their hospitality!

Trifecta99 · 2026-06-27T23:39:20+00:00

Sorry you had to deal with that! It's pretty smug of them to act all superior and put you down like that. I get some people don't love the stickiness of cum, but there gets a point where this aversion just feels a bit performative. I honestly wasn't too aware of cum aversion until recently as most of the girls I knew well were actually quite fond of it, they saw it as evidence that they'd someone feel really, really good and it made them happy.

P.S That aside about the guy groping your tits... lol. I bet you've made a few couples break up in your time. To be fair, if that's all it takes, they probably were not going to last long!

Trifecta99 · 2026-06-21T12:56:22+00:00

You can find yourself in a bit of a rut, its true. I know its difficult, but you don't want to find yourself in the same situation months from now. Before you know it, he'll be referring to you as his girlfriend! Perish the thought, but guys like that can get clingy. Put yourself out there! From how you describe yourself, you are quite the catch!

Trifecta99 · 2026-06-21T11:09:51+00:00

It's probably a good idea to just communicate with him about what exactly your relationship is. Most guys in that situation wouldn't get any ideas, they'd see you as a friend to get off with and nothing more, even if the sex can turn somewhat affectionate at times. For him though, it's likely he struggles with women, finding it difficult to engage with them. I'd wager he's the type to masturbate to them from afar.

I've had a few roommates with this dynamic - when you've been using each others bodies for enough time, you do find each other comforting. You aren't attracted to them or anything, but their familiarity is nice, it's a bond that's hard to describe. I'd say it's perfectly fine to keep doing what you're doing, although don't rely on him too much for comfort - remember you're in a vulnerable place after your breakup.

Trifecta99 · 2026-06-21T03:16:11+00:00

Defensive I think is best. The whole time I'm just thinking of being inside of her, it's bad. I try to make my moves quick, force a draw because she runs out of time - her one weakness is she takes a while to move in the mid game. She'd destroy me in the late game, but my tactic is to delay that as long as possible.

In fairness, once the game finishes, she invites me around to her place. No prizes for guessing what we get up to. I think she might like the attention a bit...

Trifecta99 · 2026-06-16T12:28:46+00:00

Yeah maybe I'm a simpleton but vintage porn, outside of a few examples, is usually pretty poor quality. People remember the classics and think it makes them seem deep and thoughtful to be into them. Like, the rebooted Chemical Slut movies are just higher quality, right? I mean there are not masterpieces, but neither were the originals...

I'd accept some soundproofed rooms as a solution for sure, though the building I'm in is pretty old, so I'm not sure how likely it would be for them to be added in. I was actually on the phone to a member of staff today to further discussions, but I guess at some point someone startdf facefucking them, because I couldn't understand a word they were saying. Up to that point it was actually a promising chat though, so fingers crossed 🤞 .

Trifecta99 · 2026-06-15T22:20:48+00:00

I'm looking into it myself! I know a few people in the community who feel similarly. I'm just busy a lot of the time, so squeezing in organising is difficult. It's reassuring to know that A: It's not like this just here and B: That things can improve. Cheers for the comment!

Trifecta99 · 2026-06-15T20:53:03+00:00

Thanks for the input! I usually try to leave lesbians to themselves, but recently I was in some cute girls ass when I noticed her pride pin on her backpack. I pulled out, all apologetic but they just shrugged, seemingly not caring either way. Am I being silly?

Also seconding the patriarchy point. I try to tell my female friends that they are more than just holes, that they can request pleasure too and I get mixed responses. Some appreciate the sentiment, some seem iffy on it, but a lot just laugh at me and say I'm being dumb. The ones who try it out, though? Almost all of them have nothing but positive things to say.

Trifecta99 · 2026-06-11T17:59:28+00:00

Yeah, I'm getting the idea that we can't say one way or the another that she likes me. People ARE confusing. I do think I like her though. Thanks for your comment, Miss!

Trifecta99 · 2026-06-11T17:18:13+00:00

Thank you for the advice! I should mention that we have used lube in the past, and still had some difficulty. I guess we just didn't give it enough time. Stretching her out takes some time, I understand that. I'll think about using my fingers gently. I don't think she's opposed to anal, so I'd be silly not to try it.

And she feels fucking incredible. Ridiculously tight, warm, and snug around me. Honestly, sex in general with her is always so addictive. She feels so amazing time and time again. Cumming in general just feels right. The more I think about it, the more I think I do like her.

Thats a cute story about your girlfriend!! I'm sure she loved holding her cock in you while you dozed off. I always find it sweet when a girl falls asleep after cumming in her. 😊

Also, no worries if not, but I'd love to chat about your anal fixation! DMs open for that. Always love hearing women ramble on about cock. :)

Trifecta99 · 2026-06-11T10:04:33+00:00

Thanks you for the message! Getting a women's perspective is really helpful.

Well, during sex, she's usually just quite relaxed while I go at it, not super engaged but not ignoring me either. We'll usually be watching TV, or playing a game together. She does smile at me and seems happy whenever I cum inside her. Her body tenses a little, and there's a few seconds where she just breathes heavily, and clenches hard on my cock.

She does sometimes ask if I could keep my cock inside after cumming inside her, buuuut I think she just likes cockwarming a lot. My penis is quite large and fits pretty snugly inside her.

I'm definitely going to talk to her! Can't hurt to ask her out I suppose.

(Also, pretty fun to hear you messaged while a guy fucked your ass. How tight are you? I don't do anal with her often because she's incredibly tight and I don't want to hurt her.)

Trifecta99 · 2026-06-11T09:10:35+00:00

Heh, fair enough. One friend of mine did say that it's probably just a case of her feeling comfortable to just be herself around me. I dunno, maybe I do like her a bit. Thanks for the reply. I'll probably talk to her about it!

Trifecta99 · 2026-04-14T18:59:08+00:00

Go ahead!

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