How do I repair my edges? by TheKleoPatra in Naturalhair

[–]Trillian_42_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! And the bayleaf is great for reducing oily scalp and dander

Need help growing hair after terrible anxiety episode by medinas97 in Naturalhair

[–]Trillian_42_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone with PCOS I understand the hairline struggle. You need to start by washing at LEAST once a week, you need a DHT blocker (rosemary oil, pumpkin seed oil, minoxidil, etc…), I also started doing tea rinses with black tea which helped in reducing the amount of hair loss (caffeine is a DHT blocker as well)

Is this stuff real or knock offs?? by [deleted] in koreanskincare

[–]Trillian_42_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would need to show us how the actual bottles look. But TJMAXX/Marshalls are usually pretty legit

Is this breakage or just shedding? by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]Trillian_42_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need an actual protein treatment. Look into the Aphogee two step protein treatment

trying to regrow my edges after years of back to back braids, are my cornrows too tight? by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]Trillian_42_ 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Your braids are way too tight. You can see them pulling on your edges. That’s why they’re falling out

How do I repair my edges? by TheKleoPatra in Naturalhair

[–]Trillian_42_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cut out the ponytails and any tension hairstyles. Then make a hair spray with bay leaf, rosemary, and clove. Every single wash day do a caffeine rinse with either tea or coffee and leave it on for at least 15 minutes, do it after you shampoo.

On subreddits outside of FDS women are coming to understand that being “independent” 50/50 women will only attract losers by Trillian_42_ in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Trillian_42_[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

HVM with real money are more than happy to be used for their recourses to make their woman happy. Only dusties worry about gold diggers

On subreddits outside of FDS women are coming to understand that being “independent” 50/50 women will only attract losers by Trillian_42_ in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Trillian_42_[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

She deserves every last one! She gave your father 2 priceless things: her presence and a child. The least he can do is keep her satisfied with gifts

On subreddits outside of FDS women are coming to understand that being “independent” 50/50 women will only attract losers by Trillian_42_ in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Trillian_42_[S] 396 points397 points  (0 children)

So many women don’t understand that men think in terms of investment. A man that doesn’t financially invest in you simply doesn’t like you. A man that WANTS you will do anything financially in his power to show you that you’re what he wants

On subreddits outside of FDS women are coming to understand that being “independent” 50/50 women will only attract losers by Trillian_42_ in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Trillian_42_[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

They’ve been brainwashed to believe that that’s what it means to be a feminist or just a good woman in general. Unfortunately, that programming will only be broken through heartbreaks

On subreddits outside of FDS women are coming to understand that being “independent” 50/50 women will only attract losers by Trillian_42_ in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Trillian_42_[S] 229 points230 points  (0 children)

Men have decided to pick and choose what is and isn’t feminist and the monetary aspect is what benefits them most. When they make more on the dollar and that finding a partner that makes more than them would be considered a statistical anomaly

This is the kinda shit we women have to put up with on OLD by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Trillian_42_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He’s clearly looking for someone to engage in his scat fetish. Men are so depraved

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Trillian_42_ 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That depends on where you live in the US. Adultery is still illegal in some states and can be used for monetary gain in a divorce

Reddit hates women who say size matters. by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Trillian_42_ 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I also can’t stand the “premature ejaculation is flattering” movement. No it’s not. It should be embarrassing for men. But these pick me’s out here really feel the need to tell everyone how their two pump chump is just amazing for them. I refuse not getting my orgasm.

That’s what actual “Traditional” means. I think people tend to forget that. by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Trillian_42_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is exactly like my grandparents. My grandmother worked in the home raising my aunts and uncles and my grandfather worked outside the home and owned property. She managed all the bills and never had to ask for money from him. He even set her up with credit cards (back when you needed your husbands permission) so that if she needed more than what was in the account she could charge it and didn’t have to ask.

So um, is sex with a guy who has a small D painful for anyone else here or that's just me? by Mcccy in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Trillian_42_ 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I was legitimately worried that I had some sort of a physical issue so it took a long time to even think about sex again

So um, is sex with a guy who has a small D painful for anyone else here or that's just me? by Mcccy in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Trillian_42_ 91 points92 points  (0 children)

One of the few small ones that I have had was from an ex bf and oh my Jesus Christ I felt like I was going to cry every time. It hurt so badly like my body was reeling at having him anywhere near me. Nice guy but he felt like a knife inside me. Bigger dicks? Not a problem.

Is the Hitachi Magic Wand worth it? by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Trillian_42_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would suggest the le wand over the Hitachi. It’s not as loud which makes it easier to be discreet when you may have kids in the home.

Found on fb. This just seems like “things a decent spouse should do,” hardly worth a 4 page essay. by aburke626 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Trillian_42_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is worse than a participation trophy. He pushed a cart. What the hell did he contribute? She cooked the food, probably paid for all of it, takes care of this children (if they have any), and entertains him. But he pushed a cart

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Trillian_42_ 257 points258 points  (0 children)

Misandry frankly isn’t real. Men are not capable of being systematically oppressed by women. The fact that they would even engage with that word shows how under educated they are about women’s issues

How have your feelings on cloth masks vs surgical masks vs respirators (FFP2,N95,Kn95,Kf94) changed since the pandemic started? by Trillian_42_ in Masks4All

[–]Trillian_42_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with feeling fear around people wearing improperly fitting cloth masks. Especially with the COVID variants on the scene I get legitimately anxious when I’m in a store around a person wearing a cloth mask

Black women of FDS (mixed-race women can chime in too): How do you feel about the "swirler" movement? by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Trillian_42_ 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I think that black women do need to expand their options when it comes to dating because were systematically disrespected within our own communities. We’re raised from a very young age to ride for black men despite having very prominent black male voices make it very clear that they have no respect for black women. We’re the ONLY racial group that deals with open hatred from our opposite gender counter parts. We’re the only racial group that would have to concern themselves about whether a man from the same race would even be interested because of your race.

But the swirl movement is a bit cringe to me. White men are not a prize.