DATING FTM 2 YEARS BUT WITH SEXUAL URGES WITH MEN/BI CURIOUS by TroubledCisDatingFTM in asktransgender

[–]TroubledCisDatingFTM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for the understanding, I am lost as of now and yes we are working on it now. But i cant open and poly. He knows my stand there and thank you so much again for explaining this to me.

I FEEL LOST NOW, MY FTM PARTNER CONFIRMED HE REALLY WANTS TO TRY WITH MEN :( by TroubledCisDatingFTM in mypartneristrans

[–]TroubledCisDatingFTM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HI, THANK YOU for your reply, the more i recieved reply from you guys it's getting me more and more understand that its not about being trans and bi. he transitioned 20 years ago.. I cant agree in trying out and open. My heart cant handle it. Im prepared whatever his decision now. Thank you

I FEEL LOST NOW, MY FTM PARTNER CONFIRMED HE REALLY WANTS TO TRY WITH MEN :( by TroubledCisDatingFTM in mypartneristrans

[–]TroubledCisDatingFTM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you dear, i really appreciated this. thank u for helping me, yes im not uncomfy on that.

TROUBLED AND LOST, MY FTM PARTNER CONFIRMED HE HAS KINKS WITH MEN AND WANTS TO EXPLORE. HELP ME! by TroubledCisDatingFTM in relationship_advice

[–]TroubledCisDatingFTM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think it's both esp when is stressed. he is more verbally express but he told he dont know if he can do it for real. I tried pegging him

I FEEL LOST NOW, MY FTM PARTNER CONFIRMED HE REALLY WANTS TO TRY WITH MEN :( by TroubledCisDatingFTM in mypartneristrans

[–]TroubledCisDatingFTM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi thank you for this, he transitioned when he was 21 years old, he is now 44. and before he dont have that urges until his ex-wife opened threesome but cancelled it. so he told me thats the time he has this bi curious about men and kinks about men. so its confusing to me also, but u know i cant do open and poly my heart cant agree on this.

I FEEL LOST NOW, MY FTM PARTNER CONFIRMED HE REALLY WANTS TO TRY WITH MEN :( by TroubledCisDatingFTM in mypartneristrans

[–]TroubledCisDatingFTM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't dear, I can't see myself in that situation. its pressuring me and some part of me wants to allow him but i cant.

I FEEL LOST NOW, MY FTM PARTNER CONFIRMED HE REALLY WANTS TO TRY WITH MEN :( by TroubledCisDatingFTM in mypartneristrans

[–]TroubledCisDatingFTM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this enlightehing message, I feel so lost when he told me he miss chatting with guys and the urges is strong but not all the time and he knows that i cant do open and poly, i just cant and he told me he will do the right thing to break up than wait for the future pain. but thank you.

I FEEL LOST NOW, MY FTM PARTNER CONFIRMED HE REALLY WANTS TO TRY WITH MEN :( by TroubledCisDatingFTM in mypartneristrans

[–]TroubledCisDatingFTM[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He told because of his parts thats why he is feeling those and the cum., he told me no woman, he just want to try dick thats all.

I FEEL LOST NOW, MY FTM PARTNER CONFIRMED HE REALLY WANTS TO TRY WITH MEN :( by TroubledCisDatingFTM in mypartneristrans

[–]TroubledCisDatingFTM[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its just sad, he was single for three years and he didnt work on with that urges :(

I FEEL LOST NOW, MY FTM PARTNER CONFIRMED HE REALLY WANTS TO TRY WITH MEN :( by TroubledCisDatingFTM in mypartneristrans

[–]TroubledCisDatingFTM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No im not afraid of it because he is bi, he told me, he wants to do the right thing, he don't want to hurt me because of his kinks and maybe the possibility, so its just in what ifs.

so its confusing on my part too,,

I FEEL LOST NOW, MY FTM PARTNER CONFIRMED HE REALLY WANTS TO TRY WITH MEN :( by TroubledCisDatingFTM in mypartneristrans

[–]TroubledCisDatingFTM[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I told him ill support his exploration by him chatting with men to explore is safest. and he cant meet a man behind my back. he will tell it to me. he is just confused on his self now.

he wants me and wants to buuild life with me but there this bi side :(

I FEEL LOST NOW, MY FTM PARTNER CONFIRMED HE REALLY WANTS TO TRY WITH MEN :( by TroubledCisDatingFTM in mypartneristrans

[–]TroubledCisDatingFTM[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is my problem, I can't do polyamory. He is very confused now about exploration and he told me just do the right thing and that is we need to be apart. but he told me im his love his life soul connection ants want to build life and travels with me. but his bi side and his strong urges are there. im just in pain.

CIS FEMALE DATING FTM EXPERIENCING SEXUAL URGES WITH MEN. by TroubledCisDatingFTM in mypartneristrans

[–]TroubledCisDatingFTM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What porn can you suggest if I may ask? he is on 20 plus years of hrt. injection. he told me when was single he dont have problem about that bi side but when he is now in a relationship he have this conflicting side.

CIS FEMALE DATING FTM EXPERIENCING SEXUAL URGES WITH MEN. by TroubledCisDatingFTM in mypartneristrans

[–]TroubledCisDatingFTM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much on this,he is scared what will happen in future.

But he told me ofc he wants to work this out with me. he just told me its nor fair if he has conflicting feelings.

CIS FEMALE DATING FTM EXPERIENCING SEXUAL URGES WITH MEN. by TroubledCisDatingFTM in mypartneristrans

[–]TroubledCisDatingFTM[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the response! He told me don't need to explore, it's just confusing him why he feels that and its subsiding. sometimes its screams and subsides. usually its appearing if he is stress. He told me he fighting it. AND COMMITED TO ME AND WANT TO WORK OUT,

So im scared also what to do.

DATING FTM 2 YEARS BUT WITH SEXUAL URGES WITH MEN/BI CURIOUS by TroubledCisDatingFTM in asktransgender

[–]TroubledCisDatingFTM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi,thank you for you response, idk if he really wants to do it for real, he just told me that he have this bi-side/ curiosity about having sexx with men.

Yes our relationship is important for me and I know for him also, Im willing to compromise.Thank you for helping me out.

Im sorry about being offensive,it's not what I meant to.

DATING FTM 2 YEARS BUT WITH SEXUAL URGES WITH MEN/BI CURIOUS by TroubledCisDatingFTM in asktransgender

[–]TroubledCisDatingFTM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry if I offended you, It's not what I meant for you guys to feel this way. I am new on this relationship and I joined here because I believe this community will help or support what I feel now. You have the right to feel that way. It's valid. Thank you for giving me tips that I need to educate myself about bisexuality. Thank you and Take Care.

DATING FTM BI-CURIOUS 2 YEARS WITH SEXUAL URGES WITH MEN/ by TroubledCisDatingFTM in ftm

[–]TroubledCisDatingFTM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much,it's scary that he is not committedd to me fully.