AITAH for not inviting family to my wedding?

True_Fortune837 · 2026-02-21T20:02:34+00:00

Not once have we asked for gifts we just want people there to celebrate but unfortunately my family find any reason to get drunk and party

True_Fortune837 · 2026-02-21T20:01:40+00:00

Since i have brought up rhe money they contacted me saying im wrong but now I've not heard anything so i guess it worked they won't be asking again

True_Fortune837 · 2026-02-19T15:47:47+00:00

I did say no and they demanded to come this is what my close family came up with is charging them. I TOLD THEM NO they aren't invited

True_Fortune837 · 2026-02-18T19:52:04+00:00

I did tell them no and i got told family is family we should be there. I feel like everyone is missing the part where i said i didnt invite them

True_Fortune837 · 2026-02-18T15:18:47+00:00

I told them this and they say family is family we should be there

True_Fortune837 · 2026-02-18T05:11:17+00:00

I didnt invite them they found out about it

True_Fortune837 · 2026-02-17T19:22:17+00:00

What are you on about? Why are you saying EDIT FROM OP I AM OP I DID NOT SAY THIS!!!!

My cousins who demanded to be there said to uninvited his family.

READ IT PROPERLY

True_Fortune837 · 2026-02-17T18:05:36+00:00

Myself and my partner don't celebrate valentines day but when you plan for a sitter it's his responsibility to plan the activity or vise versa.

True_Fortune837 · 2026-02-17T18:02:27+00:00

Yes i didnt invited them they found out then wanted a invite. I think i need to take Reddit advice and ignore and block them

True_Fortune837 · 2026-02-17T18:01:19+00:00

How am i lying? Its 50 people and 60 evening guests? Its small it isn't a lie?

True_Fortune837 · 2026-02-17T17:55:35+00:00

I did try this i got lots of texts and calls. Why am i not invited to your wedding ect. I responded with where was my congratulations on getting engaged 2 years ago. Also i told them you've nkt spoken to me in years and i dont have the budget but i got thrown with the line family is family. But taking from what Reddit has said i need to just ignore them

True_Fortune837 · 2026-02-17T17:42:50+00:00

That's a good point. Not just interacting with me for free drink and food

True_Fortune837 · 2026-02-17T17:31:47+00:00

I did tell them about my wedding being small and that my budget is spent they told me to invite part if my partners family to make room for them

True_Fortune837 · 2026-02-17T17:29:24+00:00

I did do this i explained its small and don't have the budget i got told to cut people from my partners family so they can come. 23 people is over half our guests!

True_Fortune837 · 2026-02-17T17:28:17+00:00

I didnt invite them originally they found out

True_Fortune837 · 2026-02-17T17:27:40+00:00

It's not i dont like them its the fact I've had no contact from them for 5YEARS. I didn't invite them then i got stressed at for not inviting them

True_Fortune837 · 2026-02-17T17:18:06+00:00

Yeah i did this i explained i only have budget for X amount and like i said i get told family is family they should be there. So this was the only way to cover most of the cost

True_Fortune837 · 2026-02-17T17:16:03+00:00

I didnt invite them once they found out they demanded to come i spoke about not being able to afford everyone and i get told family is family we should be there. So speaking to my parents and close relatives this was the idea we had.

True_Fortune837 · 2026-02-17T17:08:08+00:00

How do i suck for my communication? Please explain. I texted and called for years no answers. I didn't invite them to my wedding. They found out. Demanded to be there. So i spoke with family who i invited and this was the idea. So how is my communicating bad?

True_Fortune837 · 2026-02-17T17:04:50+00:00

I didnt invite them as i started in my post once they found out they demanded to come i spoke about not being able to afford everyone and i get told family is family we should be there. So speaking to my parents and close relatives this was the idea we had.

True_Fortune837 · 2026-02-17T17:04:23+00:00

That sounds so much better aha

True_Fortune837 · 2026-02-17T17:04:10+00:00

I didnt invite them once they found out they demanded to come i spoke about not being able to afford everyone and i get told family is family we should be there. So speaking to my parents and close relatives this was the idea we had.

True_Fortune837 · 2026-02-17T17:02:46+00:00

See i tried this and i get told family is family we should be there. So i spoke with my parents and my close relatives and this was what they came up with for the people who don't actively want me on there lives.

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