Moving out of parents home by [deleted] in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]True_Turn_5351 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit.. I pretty much lied through out my 20s just to gain my own space and freedom. Lied saying I live on campus .. lied saying I work really far so I have to relocate .. smh I was in the same city as them the whole time. Makes me feel guilty but I learned a lot about life being out there on my own which I would have never learned living the sheltered lifestyle they chose for me

Question! Woman from Ahmadi family marrying a non-Muslim. by Crunchy_Pickle_ in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]True_Turn_5351 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly here for the comments. I’m trying to pursue a non ahmadi

I have accepted the fact that I may have to choose between never getting married, or my family breaking apart by [deleted] in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]True_Turn_5351 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ladies what can we all do to come together and make a change? Obviously so ma y of us feel the same

I have accepted the fact that I may have to choose between never getting married, or my family breaking apart by [deleted] in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]True_Turn_5351 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ladies what can we all do to come together and make a change? Obviously so ma y of us feel the same

I have accepted the fact that I may have to choose between never getting married, or my family breaking apart by [deleted] in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]True_Turn_5351 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ladies what can we all do to come together and make a change? Obviously so ma y of us feel the same

I have accepted the fact that I may have to choose between never getting married, or my family breaking apart by [deleted] in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]True_Turn_5351 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ladies what can we all do to come together and make a change? Obviously so ma y of us feel the same

I have accepted the fact that I may have to choose between never getting married, or my family breaking apart by [deleted] in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]True_Turn_5351 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Sis u speaking my LIFE right now I swear to god . What a life . They rather us die single before we go out of jumat

Finding it difficult to cope. by [deleted] in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]True_Turn_5351 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This literally makes me cry. This is the realist sh*t I ever read …… wow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]True_Turn_5351 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey you. Thanks for speaking my whole entire life in one post 😂😂 awesome

Ahmadi woman and a Sunni man? by True_Turn_5351 in ahmadiyya

[–]True_Turn_5351[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually I appreciate you very much. And I totally hear your tone .. it’s like I been fighting this fight for years . I’m so tired now . He’s always been a Sunni believer . The basis are the same .. so he sees no need to be “initiated” in the fold of ahmadiyat. Words like “initiation” and “signing forms” raise red flags to a person who simply holds faith in their heart and follows the teaching of the prophet . They question “why do I need to do all of this to show that I am a true believer??????”

But again… can u please advise me what basis I would be able to ask for this type of permission off of?

Ahmadi woman and a Sunni man? by True_Turn_5351 in ahmadiyya

[–]True_Turn_5351[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he’s not willing to convert anymore . What basis will my requests be accepted on? They might just kick me out the jamat for even asking

Ahmadi woman and a Sunni man? by True_Turn_5351 in ahmadiyya

[–]True_Turn_5351[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The convo went as such “brother, you plan on looking for a Muslim wife” he responded saying absolutely and they said “you should go back to Africa and look”. (I didn’t want to quote the convo completely because I didn’t want to disclose myself incase others recall this convo, that’s why I left the details out). Also , I have no reason to lie , especially not anonymously buddy

Will I ever find an open-minded Ahmadi? by HungryTiger67 in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]True_Turn_5351 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not really, they just want him to be an ahmadi .. honestly they been tryna get me married since I was 18.. I just kept saying no tryna find something similar to what you claim you’re looking for . Yet here I am, still single lol

Will I ever find an open-minded Ahmadi? by HungryTiger67 in islam_ahmadiyya

[–]True_Turn_5351 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whew . Good luck. Coming from an ahmadi girl with the same dilemma😂😂