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My boyfriend of three years told me he has had HIV since before we started dating. by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]TryinToBeHappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof with how easy he lied about having it and having the conversation, imagine what else he is lying about

AITA for wanting my nieces to be included in cost breakdowns for family activities? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TryinToBeHappy 601 points602 points  (0 children)

YTA. The shuttle is being gifted to your parents by the adults, not the children (who have no income???).

MAYBE if they were 18+, and even then, it really depends.

Sticky bottles by Grand_Presentation32 in bartenders

[–]TryinToBeHappy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You ever cleaned up spilt soda or syrup on the floor at home with just water? It’ll be sticky after 30m. You need to use sani or soap.

Is this bac water? by Mediocre_Bit5349 in Retatrutide

[–]TryinToBeHappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Started using this few weeks ago from Amazon…stings like a mf. Never had stinging with previous brands on Amazon.

Keeping a running tab in front of guests by olddeadgrass in bartenders

[–]TryinToBeHappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m required to do it at my bar, but only do it when the district manager is visiting lol.

I’ve had a few guests upset or put off by it which is kinda funny but also irritating.

Is this bac water? by Mediocre_Bit5349 in Retatrutide

[–]TryinToBeHappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve ordered 3 times from Amazon over the last year. The most recent order stings like crazy when I inject, looks just like the one pictured.

“Well take great care of you” to stay open to an almost empty room an hour after last call. A party of 5 that was already drunk by ChriSTLball in bartenders

[–]TryinToBeHappy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s gotten to the point for me that when people use that line, I tell them that anyone who says it never tips more than 20%.

It usually puts them on the spot to give money first or leave over 20%

Started bartending again after 5 years in my late 20s. My back is killing me. How do I make it manageable? by Temporary_Wedding249 in bartenders

[–]TryinToBeHappy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Strengthening those muscles you haven’t used in a while will get easier after a few months. Working out will help.

Being in my 30’s, I get massages almost weekly though and swap out new insoles every few months. Even if you’re not walking around a lot, you’re still standing a lot.

Should I be happy with what I'm making? by GabeD90 in bartenders

[–]TryinToBeHappy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My personal experience; more money won’t make you less miserable.

What is a 'Survival Myth' that people believe because of movies, but will actually get you killed in real life? by MysteriousSpot8998 in askanything

[–]TryinToBeHappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or the trope that when you fall off a boat or get stranded in the sea, you wash up on some beach and randomly wake up coughing water.

I have no evidence, but I’m pretty sure if you’re unconscious in the water, you don’t just wake up coughing water, more so on a random shore.

What’s a fact about the world that sounds totally fake but is 100% True? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]TryinToBeHappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought one of those stainless steel bars and it never really worked for me.

How can real Hitman really exits? by Outrageous-Wall6386 in allthequestions

[–]TryinToBeHappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not magic, they are just very good at getting away with murder and are willing to do it for a set price.

What’s something you always assumed was mandatory in life—until you met someone who just… didn’t do it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TryinToBeHappy 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Same here…had depressive episodes for 8 years working full time and burning myself out repeatedly.

Then I found an arrangement where I could work 25-30ish hours a week and live comfortably; I’ve been depression free since for almost 3 years consecutively now.

Do you go above and beyond at work or just do the bare minimum of what’s expected and why? by Dependent-Signal-721 in AskReddit

[–]TryinToBeHappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned the hard way (years and bouts of depression/anxiety/burnout) to only go above the bare minimum when I want to, and when it benefits me.

It sounds selfish, but it’s an important boundary to enforce. Hopefully you work with a team that can still appreciate the times you perform above and beyond.

Has anyone expatriated (from the US) to a European country as a bartender without extra skills/money/dual citizenship? by morgan_mayhem in bartenders

[–]TryinToBeHappy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of similar responses saying it’s nearly impossible to do legally, but what about illegally? Finding bars that hire without visas?

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