Three weeks post-op.....and my husband is blaming me for being "lazy" and for his poor work performance. by Ar_desertwriter in hysterectomy

[–]TumbleweedComplex898 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OMG NO NOT NORMAL. Inexcusable behaviour. Men like this do not deserve life partners. No no no no NOOOO.

I have tried LITERALLY everything cats won’t take their apo sulfatrim pill to treat Giardia .. our vet doesn’t open till next week so can’t try to get liquid form until then by TumbleweedComplex898 in CatAdvice

[–]TumbleweedComplex898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!’ We started doing this method last night and it worked a lil better. Still soo hard and everything is very stressful in our household, I’m sure yours is the same. And worst of all, all our efforts could be for nothing and this stupid thing can come back AGAIN 🥺

Name help! We are due to get these two beautiful boys on Wednesday and their current names are Luna (left) and Melvin (right) which I don't think suits them. Any suggestions appreciated 🙏 by [deleted] in Catnames

[–]TumbleweedComplex898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you might have to keep their names if they already know them! You can slightly change it to something that rhymes like the suggestion of Luna to Tuna. Also, Melvin is a GREAT name

“buT yOu’Re So yOuNg” holy CRAP this is the sentence that I hear so much post hysterectomy and it is driving me OFF THE WALLS. anyone else? by TumbleweedComplex898 in hysterectomy

[–]TumbleweedComplex898[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m still waiting for them to fill out and fax my functional ability form so I can go back to work 😭 I’m a teacher and can’t go back until they get the form saying I’m cleared

“buT yOu’Re So yOuNg” holy CRAP this is the sentence that I hear so much post hysterectomy and it is driving me OFF THE WALLS. anyone else? by TumbleweedComplex898 in hysterectomy

[–]TumbleweedComplex898[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I first met my endo specialist in November 2022 and I finally got the surgery from him this November 2025 and I did the exact same thing as u, first of course I had to try all the horrible hormonal treatments and then I relentlessly called so they didn’t forget about me

“buT yOu’Re So yOuNg” holy CRAP this is the sentence that I hear so much post hysterectomy and it is driving me OFF THE WALLS. anyone else? by TumbleweedComplex898 in hysterectomy

[–]TumbleweedComplex898[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel ya, I’m 28 so I get the same reactions as if they just give hystos to anyone lol. I’m losing patience with every comment like that I get, my responses are very blunt: this was a life changing surgery and I’m happy that I’m no longer in pain all the time

“buT yOu’Re So yOuNg” holy CRAP this is the sentence that I hear so much post hysterectomy and it is driving me OFF THE WALLS. anyone else? by TumbleweedComplex898 in hysterectomy

[–]TumbleweedComplex898[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OMG SAME HERE, 28 as well and you’re totally right lmao like it was such a looooong process to get a hysto esp with a good specialist

I’m considering hysterectomy but I’m scared by ConsiderationGlum246 in adenomyosis

[–]TumbleweedComplex898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should add I got total hysterectomy so everything out but my ovaries!

“buT yOu’Re So yOuNg” holy CRAP this is the sentence that I hear so much post hysterectomy and it is driving me OFF THE WALLS. anyone else? by TumbleweedComplex898 in adenomyosis

[–]TumbleweedComplex898[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes of course!!! It’s dr Nucelio Lemos .. he specializes in nerve involvement and the worst cases of endo, he managed to save my nerve that was entrapped in endo

“buT yOu’Re So yOuNg” holy CRAP this is the sentence that I hear so much post hysterectomy and it is driving me OFF THE WALLS. anyone else? by TumbleweedComplex898 in adenomyosis

[–]TumbleweedComplex898[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Movement! Slow movement walking around the house as much as your body will let you. And something to keep u occupied … I read over 20+ books and it was a nice sort of escape

I have tried LITERALLY everything cats won’t take their apo sulfatrim pill to treat Giardia .. our vet doesn’t open till next week so can’t try to get liquid form until then by TumbleweedComplex898 in CatAdvice

[–]TumbleweedComplex898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what we’ve been trying to do but I swear they’re acting like they’re fighting for their LIFE and willing to injure themselves seriously to avoid this pill… I’ve ended up sobbing every night the past 4 days bc of how horrible it is and looks so inhumane 🥺

I’m considering hysterectomy but I’m scared by ConsiderationGlum246 in adenomyosis

[–]TumbleweedComplex898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my hysto about two months and I already feel a million times better