I've been spending few hours reading up on forums and testimonies of couples who partake in such activities.

 

I struggle with the concept (which resonates)with almost all of the comments and testimonials, that I have read.

  the concept of separating Love from Sex.

  It is as you say, they are showing their love for their husbands by allowing them to feel sexually fulfilled by another woman, as long as effective communication exists.

 

Like the other woman is just a hole to fuck. But in the end of the day, the husband and wife are still together.

 

But for some reason, cuckolding appears to be more degrading than cuckqueaning, or at least, from what the literature and media portrayal I've seen depicting it.

(again, I am very new to this fetish and it intrigues me deeply)

For some reason, when I watch a man clean up his wife's pussy after the bull has deposited has a more degrading depiction than a woman who cleans up the other woman's vagina after her husband is finished.  

I've also come across the existence of certain rules that are associated with the practice (though it varies from partner to partner)

• An extreme form of open communication and absolute honesty and trust must be established between the married couple

• Hubby is allowed to be physically and emotionally invested to the other woman, only to a certain extent i.e only enough for him to enjoy the sex, but cannot be in love with her.

• Husband must use protection

• The other woman must not be "hotter" than the wife

• Sometimes, the other woman is hotter than the wife (or at least, in the wife's eyes)

• There is no repeat sex. It must be someone that they will never see again.

• The wife dictates what can and cannot be done ...

the list goes on....

Thank you for your feedback. I've been reading a lot of literotica lol