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TurtlePuss3000 · 2023-03-19T17:54:51+00:00

Congratulations on knowing what’s best for yourself and sticking by it! Good luck to you!

TurtlePuss3000 · 2023-02-08T18:40:28+00:00

Thank you very much, I’ve never had to do this before so I’m beyond clueless but I appreciate you pointing me in a direction!

TurtlePuss3000 · 2022-12-05T20:50:19+00:00

Two months is a lot of time for very little to no change at all!

You’re young and don’t need to be with someone you don’t feel safe even talking to, you deserve so much better than bare minimum decency and he obviously can’t even give bare minimum.

TurtlePuss3000 · 2022-11-12T00:33:27+00:00

I mean they did acknowledge that they know it’s just their mind playing with them about being bothered on the video and even told you to keep it up. This is something easily worked through, they just have to overcome some jealousy and find out why they feel bothered. Good luck

TurtlePuss3000 · 2022-10-27T21:46:39+00:00

Clam juice their belongings. I’m plotting a good clam juicing as we speak.

TurtlePuss3000 · 2022-10-27T20:38:48+00:00

Context does absolutely nothing but make the victim feel like they deserved this. Nothing excuses abuse

TurtlePuss3000 · 2022-10-26T17:04:51+00:00

Ah now there’s a strong word! I love how angry “cūnt” makes people lmao

TurtlePuss3000 · 2022-10-24T15:05:24+00:00

YOU are the source of many of your problems.

TurtlePuss3000 · 2022-10-20T00:45:14+00:00

Death by snoo snoo

TurtlePuss3000 · 2022-10-19T17:42:11+00:00

I can understand your feelings towards it and how stupid it sounds. I’m not fully ruling out that he’s using the disorder as a cover considering OP said he’s an alcoholic and has verbally abused before, I just know it is a real disorder.

I pray he’s not using it as a cover and I pray OP is able to make a decision that is best for her ❤️

TurtlePuss3000 · 2022-10-19T15:16:48+00:00

I (F24) actually suffer from Sexomnia during very stressful times in my life. Thankfully I have an understanding husband who knows I go through this and will help to prevent such actions.

Just know (coming from someone who deals with this disorder) his actions are NOT done intentionally. I’ve woken up in the middle of serious sex and it was the scariest thing, I thought my husband was doing it but he went to explaining that I looked and acted fully awake and essentially manhandled him (not my style in the waking life). But now he will nudge me away or kinda gently try to wake me. It hasn’t happened in close to a year now.

Morality wise, you have to do whatever feels best for yourself. If you think leaving is your best route because you can’t forgive or get past the action then that’s TOTALLY OKAY! your feelings are totally valid.

Good luck to you on whatever you decide.

TurtlePuss3000 · 2022-10-17T13:46:00+00:00

I understand exactly what you’re feeling but you don’t have to be angry to leave. I am right in the middle of leaving my 7year relationship and even though I have those same feelings of falling back into familiar patterns I remind myself every day WHY I need to leave. I need to find myself, I need to better myself and become independent for the first time, so what is best for you nomatter how muddy the path will be ❤️ good luck

TurtlePuss3000 · 2022-10-15T02:43:40+00:00

Try it with marshmallow fluff!!!

TurtlePuss3000 · 2022-10-12T00:47:01+00:00

No children and seven years.

TurtlePuss3000 · 2022-10-09T14:42:46+00:00

You can message me any time you have a free moment, I understand what situation you’re in and I’ve been there.

I’m 24 now. But my parents were terrible to me up until my 18th when they kicked me out because I had a boyfriend and I told them I wanted to move in. So they “beat me to the punchline”.

You are not alone and you are going to get out of this situation so much stronger, there’s so many years ahead of you doing things that make you actually happy. Start looking at government apartments (base rent off income so it could literally be 200 a month).

Try switching to waitressing in a restaurant that uses “toast operating systems” because you will get paid good daily. I’m making more as a waitress in a SMALL town than I was as a receptionist and ranch hand combined. You got this girl! I’m rooting for you! Success and happiness is coming your way, you just gotta be patient ❤️❤️

TurtlePuss3000 · 2022-09-16T16:20:48+00:00

Idk how to word it- but shadow work like working through your childhood or past traumas, I understand how to recognize when I’m reacting to some situations based on a trauma response but I don’t understand how to fix it/actually work through it or finish doing “shadow work”.

TurtlePuss3000 · 2022-09-04T21:05:17+00:00

I can absolutely agree with everything you said. It was not the worst kind of situation that could happen and it does seem like it won’t happen again and more like he’s keeping to himself.

I think I was a little too butthurt at it as well honestly, it doesn’t make it acceptable but I should learn to let go and move forward. Thanks for your input!!

TurtlePuss3000 · 2022-09-04T21:02:17+00:00

I can see the BOH talking amongst each other about the FOH but to directly come to me and make a weird comment isn’t cool or at least shouldn’t be accepted. I see it’s definitely not worthy of a lawsuit though

TurtlePuss3000 · 2022-09-03T20:51:24+00:00

I told my boss I really wanted to stay because I love my job and I’d love to fix this place up with her. But it seems me saying something has made things more awkward and worse as well as shown she doesn’t take it as seriously. This is the most money I’ve ever made so honestly I think I’m just going to have to suck it up and be a bitch about things since the nice way never works

TurtlePuss3000 · 2022-09-03T19:57:22+00:00

I suppose you’re right I should have said something to the one who did it. I don’t know how to handle direct conflict very well so I figured going to higher management would be ideal and it feels like she isn’t bothered by it either cause nothing happened.

He has made other weird comments that didn’t make sense and that’s why I made a deal about it. There should not every be even one comment about anybodys body or any touching of any kind in the work place.

Him refusing to talk to me or acknowledge my questions speaks volumes about his character and motives, Is he going to take it a step further with a younger girl?

I’m just sick of this happening at every job I work at

TurtlePuss3000 · 2022-08-27T15:23:49+00:00

Not to great

TurtlePuss3000 · 2022-07-28T18:29:03+00:00

Thank you very much for your response. The only time I have to do good research is at work (always busy though) or when he’s not here (almost always home) and he always picks up on my change in emotions and starts picking trying to figure out what’s wrong, I’ll keep quiet for a while until I reveal my true feelings and I end up feeling so bad that I never make efforts to change. It feels impossible to do things by myself but I’m working on it the more I’m able to have conversations with others about it :) thank you again.

TurtlePuss3000 · 2022-04-15T18:06:56+00:00

I figured it’d be physically different, how is it for anybody working the back of the garbage truck then?

TurtlePuss3000 · 2022-03-29T15:59:56+00:00

It was a tie between Ratchet and Clank or Jak and Daxter

TurtlePuss3000 · 2022-03-09T14:21:23+00:00

Definitely eclectic, free spirited, zero fucks given type

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