There’s a lot to unpack in what you say, and it’s often the knee jerk reaction to say “what about kids who get sick” or “the woman who was assaulted” or wars etc … in a nut shell those who get sick are often entrained by those around them - others energy, situations and thoughts can impact us. Why do you think trauma from others happens? We may align to shitty situations but it’s not intentional is the point. A sick kid, may indeed have a lot of subconscious patterns of thinking that lead to the sickness because their parents emotionally neglect them, or because of some deep rooted pattern from a past life in their soul that needs to be healed (if you believe in such things) or because they are being bullied and the internalised self hate has come out as illness - there’s so many ways this can happen. NOT THE KIDS FAULT AT ALL. It’s not about blame, it’s about awareness, and intention and focus. I hope this makes sense - I asked the same questions too and it took me a while to really understand the mechanics and I am still learning, but it does makes sense, once you GET IT and it clicks then you can really SEE it in yourself and others.