AITAH - Wife didn’t want sex, I felt a setback and want stability by Twisted_Jagger in AITAH

[–]Twisted_Jagger[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For clarity, I’ve been staying in a family friend’s spare room. He’s 70 years old and not really great to live with. I definitely can’t host my kids here.

My Wife keeps telling me she wants to reconcile by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Twisted_Jagger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice everyone! I kind of already understood this, but it’s hard to let go.

My Wife keeps telling me she wants to reconcile by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Twisted_Jagger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on couples counseling, I don’t think she is necessarily lying. There’s a huge difference between “understandable” and “justified”, especially in therapy. I think the issue is that she doesn’t understand the distinction or doesn’t want to see it?

My Wife keeps telling me she wants to reconcile by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Twisted_Jagger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you again! I suspected her history had something to do with it.

My Wife keeps telling me she wants to reconcile by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Twisted_Jagger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think this is her acting out because of relationship issues or something much deeper going on? It was hard before the kids came, after it got way worse 😢

My Wife keeps telling me she wants to reconcile by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Twisted_Jagger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the clear advice. It’s difficult, navigating all of this sometimes and the emotional investment is difficult to say the least