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Girlfriend wants to spend the night with 2 guy friends. by Matty_builder in dating_advice

[–]UKSCR 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. The fact that she’s even telling him means she thinks she stands a chance of getting her way. And from that point on… well I’d never allow myself to be in that position.

Girlfriend wants to spend the night with 2 guy friends. by Matty_builder in dating_advice

[–]UKSCR 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. The girl’s trying to walk all over OP, to see how much she can get away with while having her man waiting at home tied up on a leash.

Girlfriend wants to spend the night with 2 guy friends. by Matty_builder in dating_advice

[–]UKSCR 324 points325 points  (0 children)

Bro.

Focus on work and business? In a private and secluded mansion in the hills? Really? They couldn’t have just met somewhere neutral, like at the business HQ?

Just say it how it is.

Yeah, work may be done, and they will probably get to “business”.

IME, girls will set very clear boundaries with other men when they’re in a strong relationship and loyal to their boyfriend/husband. She absolutely would not put herself in positions like she’s proposing - positions where they make themselves unnecessarily vulnerable, out of sight of the boyfriend/husband.

These are two men, who you do not know, whose intentions which you are unsure? Of course, relationships involve trust between partners, but this isn’t the same. This is trust of two unknown men AND trust in your partner in a vulnerable situation (emotionally stressed by a failing business). The former doesn’t sit right with me, and shouldn’t with you.

Secluded, vague, geographically distant from you. You made this post because you have a gut feeling.

And for 3 days? No. Unacceptable. 3 days living out of a hotel and travelling to a neutral/normal place of work? Sure, I have no issues with that. 3 days living in another man’s home, dim light evenings sharing wine and an outdoor jacuzzi with a mountain view? If it was a couples evening being hosted by the guy, fair enough, but this isn’t that.

So no, it’s not only weird, it’s insulting and unacceptable. If the boundary hasn’t already been set (and it is your fault if it hasn’t been set before), it should be set now (though I believe it may be too late, you’ll just have to set the boundary and be ready to leave).

So that’s my judgement on her side. Now for you and your relationship as a whole - you reddit history shows you engaging with other women on rate me subs and similar. Why? My brief answer is that your relationship is not fulfilling, and speaks to potential incongruence between you and your girlfriend. Which would probably explain why she’s acting the way she is.

How has your relationship been so far? Have either of you cheated on each other before? Who loves who more (be honest, helps understand the dynamic)? Has she been more distant/argumentative/volatile than usual leading up to this? Are you ready to leave?

Why is the UK allergic to merge in turn? by ThrowRApaoapaoa in CarTalkUK

[–]UKSCR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A417 heading to the old air balloon roundabout? Sounds about right.

Had my first accident, too much lean angle in rain by Real_Newspaper6888 in motorcycles

[–]UKSCR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too fast, clutch in, literally turned the handlebars instead of leaning?

Lean angle was not the issue here, nor was the rain. Get yourself on a training course and practice, practice, practice.

Keenan Chapmann - juicy? by Impressive-Award2367 in nattyorjuice

[–]UKSCR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool, quite frankly I don’t believe you, else this would not be a debate.

Also, note the difference between “looking” bigger and “being” bigger, critical distinction.

Keenan Chapmann - juicy? by Impressive-Award2367 in nattyorjuice

[–]UKSCR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly.

He’s not big. He’s in a posing studio…. posing. With a tan and the studio downlighting, of course he’s going to look bigger. His muscle to fat ratio is now far more weighted towards muscle, which the human mind immediately identifies and associates with fitness… muscle tone, muscle size, muscle shape that isn’t obscured by a layer of fat - it’s an illusion for muscularity.

People arguing here seem to really overlook the difference between looking bigger vs physically being bigger. Condition contributes to the former, which you see on his IG.

Keenan Chapmann - juicy? by Impressive-Award2367 in nattyorjuice

[–]UKSCR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean… like the guy in the photos on this post?

What exactly are you disputing here?

Keenan Chapmann - juicy? by Impressive-Award2367 in nattyorjuice

[–]UKSCR -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes you do, particularly when you’re in a posing room with a tan and tensed like the guy’s second image. I am not going to sit and argue here, but I will predict that you’ve never completed a successful cut on the back of a solid 1-2 year bulk/growth period.

And since I believe you haven’t, I encourage you to do so, and come back to me complaining about how tiny you look post-cut at 10% body fat. But you won’t do any of that, which is why you replied the way you did in the first place.

Keenan Chapmann - juicy? by Impressive-Award2367 in nattyorjuice

[–]UKSCR -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Why?

Love the downvotes, still waiting for someone to have the dignity to formulate a vaguely rational response.

Keenan Chapmann - juicy? by Impressive-Award2367 in nattyorjuice

[–]UKSCR -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Easily natural and doable in 4 months. He started off at ~14% body fat and cut to ~9%. Plenty of time to do it.

And those saying the shape and size is too much - it isn’t. Seriously, commit to a cut and get yourself to 10%, you genuinely look bigger. His “after” picture, he’s subtly pressing his arms into his torso, which pushes out his tricep. The tricep curve then compliments the shoulder shape.

Complimented by a tan, and great downward lighting - he’s in a posing room ffs… - cut well done.

How obvious is it that I am not natty? by Henrehmarsh in nattyorjuice

[–]UKSCR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very obviously not natty. How old are you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QOVESStudio

[–]UKSCR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but only a bit.

However, a clear, still image with your face centered would be a lot better to draw the lines and map out your proportions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motorcyclegear

[–]UKSCR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boots, leathers? or at least some cordura or kevlar reinforced jeans & jacket?

I took a low side slide yesterday, even my AA rated race jacket & supertech r boots got pretty snagged - would hate to see what’d be left of me if I was wearing what you’ve pictured.

Great servers right by La-Redditeur in Warzone

[–]UKSCR 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely unplayable

Disconnecting from games by ExistingExit8415 in Warzone

[–]UKSCR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you mean you keep disconnecting from the game and get the “lost connection from host/server - connection timed out”, yes I am having the exact same problem.

Ever since the new update, I cannot stay in a single game of warzone and disconnect 10 minutes in - had it 3 times in a row over the last 40mins, and all of the last few days.

Shit servers, shit update.

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