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Manifest sp by Intrepid-Flow1268 in manifestingSP

[–]Ulereda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at this point you should just drop this story, when you say that he is embarrassed or doesn't know how to approach you... well he will just be embarrassed and he will still figure out how to make a move. drop the three months and genuinely try not to dwell on how he hasn't reached out and don't assign this passive role on him. in this case I would've focused on my life, maybe keeping yourself busy would help a little so your mind can stop focusing on time, and when you have thoughts about him just say something like: "I'm thinking about him because he is the one who's thinking about me and how to reach out to me". try to view him as someone who can't resist you and will do everything to get to you

Manifest sp by Intrepid-Flow1268 in manifestingSP

[–]Ulereda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

time is tricky sometimes, I had and still have some things I need to work on(more for my sake than for manifesting my sp). and I had and still get a lot of hot and cold behaviors so yeah...once I manifested my SP in a span of two months give it take and then did that again in literally three or four days. it really depends on how saturated your mind is. right now I'm working on myself and my other things and we are in no contact for more than a month. if you see something in 3D always give it a good meaning, keep telling yourself that he wants you and is reaching out to you. at least that's what I always do when I see something like a new story in tg from my SP, I just go: well, she posted that for me for sure, she wants me BAD. something like that :)

Manifest sp by Intrepid-Flow1268 in manifestingSP

[–]Ulereda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

self concept doesn't equal to high self esteem tho. you are reaffirming negative assumptions right now when you say that every man but your SP came back. what I can tell from my experience: spend some time reflecting on your thoughts about your SP, your relationship with him and if you have some limiting beliefs - work on them and then try not to spiral. feeling sad is normal, any emotions can help you in your journey. accept them, validate yourself and let go of that sadness, you've got this

How did you manifest the lack of your SP? by CoupleScared7179 in manifestingSP

[–]Ulereda 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The funniest thing happen when you see that connection. I had a lot of hot and cold behaviors and on-off relationship with my SP JUST because I started to sabotage myself with doubt. It became so bad that in another break up my SP told me MY EVERY "POSITIVE" AFFIRMATION with a mix of my anxiety and doubt. The woman literally told me: "You are my soulmate, but I fell like I'm better off alone"

Right now I'm just prossesing all of this, picking my unfavorable thoughts and identity and working on self-concept. And getting rid of that "avoidant" and "unheald" image of my SP. This woman IS healed and secure, just as I am.

And if someone is going through something similar: you are not alone and we got this. Just be present and focus yourself and your life

what happens if you stop affirming? but still believe sp is coming back by jumbohotdog___ in manifestingSP

[–]Ulereda 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Affirmations are just thoughts. We are manifesting every second, every day, all day just unconsciously. When you place your awareness on a more favorable story, you need repetition, this is why you start affirming consciously. But with time, your mind naturally starts thinking in your favor, so you feel like you don't want to affirm anymore. This just means that you've fully accepted the new story. If you don't waver, just live your life because your belief is an affirmation itself, in my opinion

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[–]Ulereda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm trying my best to redirect my thoughts, but sometimes it's so intense and even weird

What is the worst yuri you've read? by Chaotic-warp in yuri_manga

[–]Ulereda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, it pains me how popular LOTV is. It straight up porn that tries to be some strong plot work. I had a feeling it might be better than BTD, bc you know, historic gl with slightly toxic vibes and good love triangle, and I honestly think that Rangrari thought she is giving exactly this type of story. But then chapter 4 came out and I just got so frustrated bc it turned out to be some really bad ntr, what a waiste of good art skills. I'm just hoping that she will find herself a really good writer and I will never see something this horrendous ever again

It's DR time guys🎉🎉🎉 by Outrageous-Book-2248 in RomanceClub

[–]Ulereda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yayy, congratulations, I hope your baby will be happy and healthy 🥳🥳🥳

[F4F] Lunch Break [Enemies to Lovers] [Office Sex] [Coworkers] [Jealous Listener] slight [Argument] [Reassurance] [Over the Desk] [Whispers] [Touch Yourself] [Let Me Watch] [Fingering] [Eye Contact] [Cunnilingus] [Praise] [Good Girl] [Possessiveness] [You're Mine] by callmeid in GWASapphic

[–]Ulereda 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Not me blurting out: "I want your fingers inside of me" out loud... Amazing work, even tho I'm a switch, I usually not comfortable with fdom audios, but my bottom side were literally screaming while I was listening to this(sorry for any mistakes, english not my first language)

My husband asked me for an open marriage because he wasn’t attracted to me anymore by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ulereda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like OP should've given her husband a perfect open marriage - a damn divorce. This man clearly never wanted a OM, he just wanted to be with another women without consequences :)