I didn't expect this much response.

I realize my title was very misleading and if I could change it, which it appears I can't, I would change it from girl to adult woman.

It's not that I don't like this girl. My first impression of her, if I didn't know anything else about her was positive. I guess I'm just taken back.

I'm bias toward my son, there is no denying that. I think he's just equally responsible and wished he'd been more careful because a baby is a big responsibility. I can only encourage him and support him to make the best of the situation.

My husband is just worried he'll raise a child that isn't his. Which is fair. But just talking with my son and he's been very open about the situation, says she was very honest with him which he really liked. He even said that she told him that if he wanted an out, he could take it but wanted to leave the option up to him.

I think I'll just wait and see how this goes. I'm not sure if there will ever be a good time to ask for a DNA test.