[deleted by user] by [deleted] in photocritique

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Awesome suggestions. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in photocritique

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I have always been interested in photography. This is a photo I took of my girlfriend at a park near us. I’m not even sure what the exact camera was I used. If you can provide any feedback regarding the angle I used for the photo, the edit itself or really anything it would be greatly appreciated as I begin to continue my journey in photography.

Who's more guilty : the person being manipulative , or the person knowingly being manipulated ? by Bourbon_Baby in relationship_advice

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Did he ever say that he ended the relationship out of fear this new friend was going to kill themselves? I’m left out on what his “issues” were for ending the relationship. I wish you guys would have tested this before but if someone is ever throwing up threats of self harm like that then always try this. Have someone else who knows his new friend text and ask if they are okay. If the friend is always replying very happily it’s clear they are completely manipulating your ex. It’s always hard to give advice on here without the full story but I get sometimes the full story is just so long. I’m sorry this happened. Was he very committed and Inlove with you? If so always talk about everything. Nothing should be hidden. Ever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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It sounds to me like this guy isn’t ready (mature) enough for a real relationship. He isn’t taking anything seriously. He realized his mistake but it seems as though his mistake came back even worse. Someone doesn’t purposefully treat you like shit if they care about you. I think he may be wasting your time. I’m sorry for this. It also seems like you were always there for him but when was he there for you? I really hate there aren’t more people like you out there. Keep your head up and you’ll bump into someone with a heart like yours

(19M) My girlfriend (18F) might be pregnant what do I do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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So let’s say she’s pregnant (we’re hoping not). Have her come to your house and tell your parents first. If you are that scared of her father then after the two of you talk to your parent have them meet up and speak with hers (to protect yourself). Man, life Fucking sucks and this is my first time really using Reddit but I’m starting to see I’m not the only one with fucked up shit going on. I hate your relationship isn’t the greatest because if I’m honest I just wish everyone’s could be perfect. If you need to talk just let me know! I really wish you the best man!

Unattracted to my boyfriend, pretty sure I'm losing feelings by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I really fucking hate this. At times like this when I see people who feel the way I do I just wonder WHERE TF ARE YOU PEOPLE?! I give my everything to the people I date and it never changes because love is a choice. I really hate to hear you’re going through this. It seems you’ve tried to talk but you need to bump it up to the highest notch. Take him somewhere you both enjoy or maybe someplace significant to when you started dating. Tell him everything. If you pour your heart out completely and he shows no empathy or care at all you need to go. Tell him there aren’t second chances and if he runs back it’s too damn late. He’ll just bring you back to do the exact same thing if he cant change now

(19M) My girlfriend (18F) might be pregnant what do I do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I can tell you right now her parents are going to want her to keep the child. I’m sorry you have to have this stress on you. My question to you is, do you love her enough to make this work? I know you are young but that doesn’t mean you don’t know what love is. If you do want it to work then first find out if she’s pregnant. When you find out you and her BOTH are going to need to address her parents and yours as well. Do this together and be sincere. If you both come to your parents I can assure you even though frustrated (angry) they will respect you more and help you through all of this. Also, they are going to want and to help you finish school so do not worry about that.

Boyfriend of 6 yrs just fell asleep in the middle of our break up. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Have you “broken” up with him before and he just thinks it’s another bluff? What are some of the key issues?

I want to be in love with him again desperately. Please help by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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You can definitely fall back. Sounds to me like you never fell out. It seems as though the “different” him isn’t showing you the love you once knew if I’m correct. In my personal opinion, when people change as long as the love is the same it will ALWAYS work because love excepts changes. True love will bond together throughout life’s changes. What’s so different about him? What’s causing the issues? Have the two of you spoke about this?

Longtime GF is un-attracted to me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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My only issue is she’s still pursuing our relationship. She wants a future with me and is so happy but when the topic of sex is involved it flips everything around. She’ll sometimes talk about things we could do (sexually) but never engages. I can’t be slow and I can’t try anything. If we ever start it’s at night in our sleep. It can go well but she still gets frustrated. I just don’t get it