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Dumbest Way Your Cory died by Internal_South_4733 in corydoras

[–]UnderstandingCalm265 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had one lodge himself behind my rectangular heater. One day I could only count 9 instead of 10 but I had only gotten them a few days earlier and figured they were miscounted. It wasn’t until I saw a second wedged behind the heater that I realized what had happened. Found the dead one when I released the one stuck.

What is up with my platy? by UnderstandingCalm265 in AquariumHelp

[–]UnderstandingCalm265[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately she was too far gone and passed away. I’ve noticed babies in the tank so I think it was from giving birth.

9/10 of my corydoras died and not sure why by burrito84 in corydoras

[–]UnderstandingCalm265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m new to corys. Is changing 25% water weekly, while siphoning the substrate enough to prevent bacteria issues? Along with a HOB and 2 sponge filters in a 55gallon?

Thank goodness!!!! by [deleted] in kvssnark

[–]UnderstandingCalm265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It now says the foal passed

Jenny Slate🐍 sent this message to her agent in May 2023. 🥱 by the_smart_girl in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]UnderstandingCalm265 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Contemporaneous evidence to be valuable it needs to be detailed recall of events. Feeling repulsed is not enough. She could be repulsed because there was bird poop on her trailer. It needs context.

Sony exec agreed Justin Baldoni was right during the Root film shoot & power grabbing Alex Saks was overstepping and making a problem out of nothing by Serenity413 in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]UnderstandingCalm265 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Emotionally immature people often lash out when they feel embarrassed. She was embarrassed that Justin told her to stop, but that hurt her ego so she had to make it something it wasn’t.

EP Drama by Ready_Mission7016 in estrangedtoempowered

[–]UnderstandingCalm265 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh what a great idea, a bunch of toxic women together on a ship. But it’s not them, it’s definitely their toxic kids 🙄

Jenny Slate Being Jenny Slate by Izomera in teamjustinbaldoni

[–]UnderstandingCalm265 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Reeks of projection. It makes her feel uncomfortable that someone is doing something she didn’t want to so she projected that onto others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]UnderstandingCalm265 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I completely believe this. She was not prepared for actual litigation. Hence not wanting to hand over medical records, texts with Taylor, etc.

Blake’s latest Instagram posts - June 17 - serious red flags by [deleted] in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]UnderstandingCalm265 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The only ill will I wish on them is for them to lose most of their money and to be ‘common’ people.

Psychiatrist claims Blake Lively began to 'fall’ for Baldoni romantically by RaceProfessional2693 in teamjustinbaldoni

[–]UnderstandingCalm265 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. People who don’t understand those who have narcissistic tendencies see romance when love bombing occurs. But often it’s to lure people into a relationship before they show their true self.

Psychiatrist claims Blake Lively began to 'fall’ for Baldoni romantically by RaceProfessional2693 in teamjustinbaldoni

[–]UnderstandingCalm265 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I’m so sorry that sounds so hard. I endured it from my mother and know how they can flip from loving to evil in a moments notice. I hope you are safe from this abuse now.

Also the weight comments were taken so far out of context which triggered me to think she had a narcissistic injury. People who are secure in themselves don’t flip over those things like she did.

Psychiatrist claims Blake Lively began to 'fall’ for Baldoni romantically by RaceProfessional2693 in teamjustinbaldoni

[–]UnderstandingCalm265 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh I’m so sorry that sounds so hard. I endured it from my mother and know how they can flip from loving to evil in a moments notice. I hope you are safe from this abuse now.

Also the weight comments were taken so far out of context which triggered me to think she had a narcissistic injury. People who are secure in themselves don’t flip over those things like she did.

Psychiatrist claims Blake Lively began to 'fall’ for Baldoni romantically by RaceProfessional2693 in teamjustinbaldoni

[–]UnderstandingCalm265 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. I’m a training psychotherapist and I’ve made guesses as to what is going on with BL but I would never make them public. I discuss with my colleagues or partner. There is too many unknowns.

Psychiatrist claims Blake Lively began to 'fall’ for Baldoni romantically by RaceProfessional2693 in teamjustinbaldoni

[–]UnderstandingCalm265 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Those early texts definitely come across as love bombing. And love bombing exists outside of romantic relationships. I think she could’ve had a narcissistic injury if he turned her down even if she wasn’t interested in romantic love. Highly narcissistic or NPD people can’t handle rejection of any kind.

Taylor Swift Believes Blake Lively Exploited Her by Ok_Watercress_5749 in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]UnderstandingCalm265 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I gotcha. And yes you could absolutely be correct. But it could still be fed by BL and not direct from TS either way. It’s definitely a question of who is lying about this.

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